"Spit or swallow" Discussion.

what to do what to do with a mouth full of a man goo.... lol

i have to revert back to my single playing the field days and my rule of spit or swallow. I dated cute hansom guys but some smoked and those who smoked I would spit because the taste was acrid and made me gag.
may want to take that note there that guys who smoke, live unhealthy, abuse drugs, etc it is safe to assume they taste bad.

My boyfriend on the other hand used to smoke but he quit and now I swallow him every time but before i didn't. To save our relationship he quit smoking for me.

 

I couldn't agree more with you! He should taste it, so he knows what he's putting his girlfriend up to... But how can a woman teach a stubborn husband or boyfriend to do that? Here's what one man says about tasting his own cum...

My wife, then girlfriend, wanted me to swallow my own cum; she told me that she swallowed when she gave me a blowjob so it only seemed fair that I should taste my own spunk. A couple times she got a small glass and had me shoot my load in it but after I cum there seemed no way I can down it. Like other guys here said once you have an orgasm it just seems totally gross. Finally she let the subject of cum swallowing drop.

We did some light bondage at times where she would tie me up and tease me before she would let me bone her. This one night, a month or so after she quit trying to get me to swallow, she was really into teasing me. She tied me to one of our kitchen chairs and really worked me over. I was on edge over a dozen times but she smiled up at me and said “Not yet babe—you’re not horny enough yet.” Not horny enough, was she crazy? We had been at it over an hour and I was miserable—blue balls, my cock hurt, I just had to come. I pleaded with her. She finally smiled very sweetly and said, “Ok I guess you have earned it on one condition.”

I said “Yeah, anything what do you want—just let me cum.”

I looked at her and she stuck a small juice glass in my face, her smile was gone. She stared into my eyes with a stern look and said, “You’re going to swallow you selfish sack of shit or live to regret it.” She started really jacking me off, it didn’t take long and I started to cum. My cock was jammed into the juice glass and she kept going until I was milked dry. She put the glass with my cum up to my lips and said “Drink up!” I turned my head away when I smelled the chorine sort of smell fresh cum has.

About then she slammed her fist down on my balls, they were sort of hanging over the edge of the chair. I screamed, hollered, whatever—I wasn’t sure if I was going to pass out or vomit from the pain. As I opened my mouth from the pain she poured the cum strait into my mouth. She screamed at me, “Swallow or I’ll do it again.” I could see her fist ready to smack my poor family jewels again. I gulped every last bit down. She shoved the glass in my face again and said, “Lick the glass.” I licked it clean.

She calmly walked over to the refrigerator and got a couple bags of frozen vegetables and packed them around my poor swollen sack. She said “I told you that you were going to swallow it.” After awhile she let me loose and I just collapsed into bed. For the next week I had to wear a jock strap instead of boxers. When I walked the boys were too sore to bounce around.

Since them she has snowballed me and had me eat her cream pie. I learned my lesson from the first cum swallowing—I do it without complaining. After all of my hesitation and almost losing my balls, cum swallowing isn’t that bad. I have a little bit of a submissive streak so it is kind of erotic in a way. My wife has turned me into a bit of a cum slut.

 

I would prefer every girl to swallow, but realise that is not going to be the case, and someone who spits is better than a woman who will not give me a blowjob at all.

 

I don't see the point in spitting unless he asks for it. I feel like it takes extra work to spit.

 

Well, I think it depends on the context of the conversation. And considering I wasn't there, I can't say for sure that's how the boyfriend of the OP meant it. But, yea... I think if someone forces their preferences onto their partner or potential partner, that's not cool. I think that is wrong for obvious reasons that I'm sure you can figure out. And I also think that it's lazy because there are so many people out in the world that can meet one's preferences, but they chose whatever comes first, whatever is in front of them at the moment, etc. It's like settling or maybe it settling. I'm not too familiar with the term and when people use it, I don't quite understand.

Anyways...

... it's a tough conversation to have, telling someone what you like and don't like romantically, sexually, etc. Say you tell someone you prefer small breasts, what are you trying to as about large breasts? Say you tell someone you prefer people who are fat, what are you trying to say about people who are skinny? Say you tell someone you prefer people who swallow, what are you trying about people who spit? So on and so forth. The only thing I think people accept as far as preferences go, is sexuality. If you tell someone I prefer men, they won't argue with you. And even then, some people will wonder why you like that over something else.

People are allowed to psychoanalyze what kind of person has what kind of preferences and what is their motive for such preferences, but I think that preferences is something that is developed through our personal experiences, such as our culture, etc that helps us make or break relationships. If both or more partners have the same preferences it will make the relationship strong. If they don't have the same preferences it will still make the relationship strong if the parties involved find a compromise or it will end the relationship, hopefully before anyone really gets hurt.

 

I think it has to depend on what she feels like. Personally I normally don't mind swallowing - actually I kinda like it - but there are times I just don't feel like it. Given that it's going in my mouth I think it's my choice if I want to swallow.

 

So how many cocks have you sucked n swallowed to say drinking juice doesn't make guys cum taste.?

 

It tastes different I find depending on ethnicity which u think has to do with diet

 

So what is wrong with a guy having his primary criteria in a girl friend be what she does in bed? I would never be with a woman who was not into swallowing AND rimming, there is no amount of "other" things that can make up for that. Cumming inside a woman can produce kids and if she wont swallow or rim then your stuck with this woman for a LONG time unless you want to be paying out major money in child support and possibly alimony (you will be wishing you just hired that escort 2 or 3 times a week compared to what your paying out to your ex). Sexual compatibility sounds like a pretty wise thing to use to pick a mate.

Are there some other things I would like out of a relationship, sure, but im not going to sacrifice what I like in bed for it. Because im not the greatest looking guy that means I have to filter based almost on sexual compatibility alone and ethnicity. Because there are SO many guys that have to have the hot blond (or hot woman in general) it means there are a lot of women that are invisible to most men who can be freaks in the sheet.

As a guy, if I cant get what I want in bed then why even have a woman in my life? I make plenty of money and can do my own laundry lol.

 

I met my wife on a dating site..while we were getting to know each other I asked her if she sucked cock, she replied that she did..but had had a "VERY!" bad experience with it while younger, when a guy tried to jam it down her throat...I replied, that there was a difference in 'sucking cock'..or 'making love to my cock...in the 2 and a half years we have been together..her talents in making my dick 'happy' have increased hundredfold.She also gets extremely 'wet' while making love to my cock with her mouth'..I must be one of the lucky older guys, as I can hold off my orgasms for a long time..I have cum in her mouth, face numerous times, but 'only' if she wanted me to...I used to try and give a 'warning'..but NOW?..she can tell when I am ready, and it is her decision. Loving someone lets her and I make decisions which are beneficial for both. I LOVE! the feel of her mouth..lips and breath on my cock..and the feeling is unbelievable!...The few times I have cum in her mouth, was without warning usually...if SHE? cums from sucking me?? She usually ends up with a mouthful..what she does with it is of no consequence to me...as long as we are BOTH smiling and out of breath at the end??..It works for me.Just my take anyway..I would never FORCE someone to do something they do NOT! want to do..so swallowing, spitting, drooling .penis in vag after a lengthy bout of her making my dick 'happy ' with her mouth?? its all good for both of us..

 

I have been swallowing cum since about 12 yo I love it even if it doesn't always taste great. The reason is because the guy seems to be so grateful that I swallowed his cum it is such a reward for me so I always do it with joy.