Unfriended

Friends for life Karen J

 

Normally When I Make A Response I Do Not Check My Friends List,

BUT.... If I Intend To Make An Agressive Response To A Post

I Check To Make Sure I'm Not Attacking A Friend....



Cheers Glen.

 

its not attacking if you are telling a friend they are being a dick...

.ass-hodeum tells me once a week when I am over grumpy....sometimes he poz reps me and most times he neg reps me.....no big deal


kind of like you glen..you know I can bring you to tears. in a good way...admit it.....

 

Here's A Little Bit Of Advice From "Down Under"

....Sunshine.... Change Hands Before You Get Blisters....



Cheers Glen.

 

Yeah, almost anybody can be on my friend list so it would be ridicilous to adjust my posts (or reps) to that. When someone is asking for a critical response they can get it. It's only me anyway (so when they make a big deal out of it it must be because i hit it right on the money)

 

I On The Other Hand, Take Pride In Respecting My Fellow Members Who Have

Approached Me For Friendship...



Cheers Glen.

 

You are reading it wrong. As Rolling pointed out already criticizing friends when the situation asks for it does not equal disrespecting them at all. I am also often accused of being too PC on this forum but I actually think the kind of pc behaviour you are talking about is what's leading to terrible and pointless hypocricy.
It can serve a person in the world and society when they have to deal with people they don't wanna or give a shit about and you don't care to spend a word on but among friends you should be able to tell pretty much anything without being shot down for it or be perceived as a nasty attacking person because of it

 

I equally criticize friends, enemies and frenemies.
I don't discriminate.

 

In My Opnion It Does, I Treat My Friends With Respect,

Wether It Be In Real Time Life, Or Cyber Life,

It Has Always Worked For Me, And I Shall

Continue To Do So....



Cheers Glen.

 

Same here. And I try not to limit treating people with respect to my friends or people on my friend list only.

 

i criticize delusions that cause harm. not people.
if people choose to take this as a personal criticizm of themselves as a person, that is their problem and their choice. not my doing at all.

 

Haha

 

...........:2thumbsup:



Cheers Glen.

 

there is a difference between constructive criticism and just telling everyone they suck.

the latter is pointless and only expresses one's own ignorance.

where as constructive criticism is a gift more precious then any praise.

(even if it doesn't always feel like it to receive)

 

I tell my friends in real life if they are rude...moromic...beautiful....stinky.....whatever....friends don't lie and say the dress looks nice....friends say your ass looks a mile wide in that whorish outfit

 

I don't really pay attention to the friend list either, but because of this thread, I just checked it.

I guess the list itself doesn't matter so much. If someone unfriends you, it usually means that they are angry or hurt about something, in which case it would be useful to know who it is in the case that it was a misunderstanding.

 

Thanks for showing constructive criticism and disrespect can go together after all

 

on my gallery page on fa there is a list of other artists i watch and one of those who watch me.

it there is a list of being friended and unfriended on here, i've never really been aware of its existence, let alone paid any attention to it.

its not really something i can see a whole lot of point in.

how interested people are in a particular thought or perspective, that is interesting and useful to know. but how they feel about me as a person, is only useful to know to run if they're getting ready to come after me with pitchforks.

 

Depends on who it is coming from, as well, if unsolicited.....as maybe the giver of it can use some themselves......
I never take it upon myself to criticize or try to correct anyone unless they have started with me first......

Karen, go to edit your friends, and see your friends ...one of the boxes there wll be unchecked, if that person unfriended you. It has happened to me a few times.....and I was mad enough to unfriend before, but usually re ask the person I unfriended to be friends again after our whatever.

 

Someone on this page unfriended me