Do you have to work for an erection?

You kind words are very much appreciated and helpful. Thanks for sharing.

 

I'm sorry, man... that you're going through this. My heart goes out to you.

I can get aroused without any effort from the male. And I like knowing I can do that because not all men are good at sex, same goes for women. So, it's nice to know I don't have to depend on the man's skill or lack of to get me going.

Anyways, it takes practice and not everyone is willing to learn. Most people can't have a conversation about sex. They either get really angry, really grossed out, or make joke after joke.

I wish I could just share and learn because sex is such a wonderful thing. And when I'm ready to have sex again, I wish I could just find a person that I can practice with and they can practice with me. No judgement. No bullshit. Just... you know. But it's not like that. Far from it. All I have is myself and my ability to please myself, which is good because I know some people don't even have that.

Come here, let's hug it out.

But, for real... I hope you figure it out.

 

I'm usually up before my pants are off but I find now now that I need constant direct stimulation to keep it up or it will go up and down and up and down, so frustrating but that doesn't happen that much because like you say I mostly have sex with these women that just hike up their skirt and expect you to go for it and for some reason they think they're great in bed lol NOT! Then there's some women that before sex they list all the things they don't do like I don't swallow, I don't want it on my face etc. and then we hop in bed and she sits on my face and does everything to me that she said she won't do. what the hell is that! I actually don't care for women sitting on my face, would be nice if they let me breath every once in a while but hey I'll do it, I'm just used to it now. It's like they think guys are obligated to do everything. Sorry I'm off topic I'll stop now

 

Don't have to work for one, more work to get rid of it

 

I have always wondered about this since I hear some guys take a bit to get hard. Me I feel like I am always hard. Even the slightest thought of a sexual experience I get super hard.