My sister is 19 years old and expecting her 3rd child.....

Go back to Germany, Nazi.

 

what a great Aunt those boys have.
all you can do, is be in their life, let them know their roots and heritage..and be there, that's the most important thing you can do..
just remember to always be there, if your tired, your own babies have kept you up..no matter, you have to find the strength to be there..
good luck to you and those babies...:daisy:your a star

 

UPDATE!

As of Thursday, October 2, 2014 my nephews were officially adopted by the family they have been in the care of. Full custody had been awarded to them back in the middle of July, but the adoption solidifies everything from their new last name to their well-being in the case that something happens to either of their adoptive parents (as you can see, they are not a very young couple). Their whole family attended, while none of my sisters family were allowed to be there; in fact, I was the only person in their biological family that was.

As far as my sisters relationship with them, she is only allowed to see them for 2 hours a week during a supervised visitation at the adoptive parent's home. That was solely determined by them and may not even last considering my sister's attitude as of late.

In short, I am glad this is over and I couldn't be more thankful for my nephews having such a wonderful loving family that have welcomed them unfailingly.

 

(That's me in the center right next to their foster mom and my youngest nephew)

 

Thats good to hear, should do well now they are with people that want to be parents

 

I am glad to hear that the boys are now in a safe and loving environment.

 

Thanks for the update, so pleased to see every one so happy.
What beautifull boys, and such a lovely happy family they are entering into.

 

well, guys. Make that 4th now...

 

Let's start a kickstarter campaign to pay your sister to get her tubes tied...

 

I know what the problem is. It's a major psychological one. Her father is a piece of shit and deserves nothing less than to get his balls crushed for the way he's treated her.

I've tried to talk to her one on one about this, including informing every professional involved with her that this problem steams from the way her father has treated her. They've tried to approach this but she refuses to talk about it with anyone but the guys that she gets with.

I don't know what else I could do. Or should do. She and I haven't had a relationship for 5 months and the 3 months following our moms death was primarily me trying to hear her out and act as the healthy and honest support that she needed. But it always comes back to the same manipulation and lies as there was before.

Regardless of the relationship I may or may not have with her, I still think about her quite often. I wish more than anything she would talk about things and get through it instead of continuing the same cycle over and over again. But we know that's not going to happen.


She just miscarried in July. She went in for the surgery the first week. She's now right at 12 weeks pregnant, which means it took her less than 11 weeks to get pregnant again ON TOP of the fact that she had an infection right after the miscarriage. It really baffles me. I'm starting to really think she's going to continue doing this until it kills her. I really don't understand what's so hard about her just taking care of herself. I mean I know with the obesity rate in the US it's a pretty common fault to have but I would think when it comes to your own reproductive system and creating life it should be a natural instinct for your awareness to be top notch especially after a fetus dies in there.

I know what I need to do....
I need to move forward and continue with my own life. And I do. But that doesnt mean I don't worry about my little sister in the back of my mind....and now moreso these children she keeps creating. All the time.

 

Ya I hear ya bud........ I wish you could help somehow but I know how hard it is TO HELP OTHERS!!!