Why Do A Lot Of Girls Like Hip-Hop?

In his own mind, yes. In fact, it's all he appears to be concerned about. I doubt he's even seriously interesting in any kind of love or relationship, he just wants kids.
Not such a good idea in the grand scheme of things

Oh, my, look at your credentials. Impressive resume, truly.

Except nobody cares, because you're making an asshole of yourself. You've probably given yourself PTSD just thinking about all this shit, traumatic experiences aside. You haven't got the faintest clue that nobody really cares - especially not at a bar. Honestly, have you listened to any of the advice that any of the members have given you on any of your threads? No, you haven't, because you turn it into a self-pity troll rant about how your life sucks, how you can't find a pretty girl to stick your penis in and impregnate, and you run away from any kind of effort we make at helping you like a dog with its tail between its legs. Your own mind is the problem here - you're so caught up in that fact that you can't actually see that.

And another thing - why on earth is the only thing you care about in these post having kids? You honestly seem disinterested in women and intent solely upon having kids. You would be playing a game that you'd have to miserably live out to keep you prize, you would be using her, you would be an absolute monstrosity in the face of actual human emotion. And I sincerely doubt you'd actually make a good father, with the way I've seen you act on here. You keep telling yourself that, though.

 

Who says I don't listen to what people say? Maybe I instinctually become defensive, but doesn't mean it doesn't sink in.

And why do you think I would not make a good father? Please tell me as bluntly as possible. Burst my delusion bubble.

And actually, I wouldn't have to stick anything in her because we could make a test tube baby.

I don't think writing a lot of messages is "trolling" if it's not saying anything malicious.

 

is that really what you think when your at a ludicris concert?? lol tom_hippie is right, and learn to relax and have fun bro....

 

Not for the rest of the world.

 

One thing is sure: nobody likes hip hip because they are genuingly interested in this kind of music

 

this is the dumbest thread. Why does anyone like any type of music? Girls like hip hop because

oh shit y'all nevermind, teach me how to dougie just came on. g2g. This is my jam.

 

Maybe he is judging from his own mind and perception (like a lot of people do of course) and he happens to be a real big conformist.

After all, he seems to be willing to change a lot (or is interested in it at least) in order to get a female friend or be regarded as a white knight

 

I spent a night partying at the "Hip-Pop" club one night. It was just down the street from "Russian-sized Disco". True story.

 

I don't like Hip Hop music but I'm only one person. I can't say why the rest would like it however but I'm not a fan. Ever since I was younger I grew up listening to The Beatles, The Doors and The Beach Boys.

 

is ludacris really still relevant? i always kind of saw him as a one or two hit wonder. but then, i don't follow pop rap either so i dunno.

 

'The rest' can obviously like it for a lot of different reasons.

I used to dislike all hip hop and swear by stuff like the Doors etc. Never really loved the Beatles though. Now I still like the Doors but am opening up to good hip hop as well

By the way, even though I am opening up to some hip hop I have no idea how Ludacris's music sounds (and think I will let it be like that). I'm not into pop rap either (like JayZ, Eminem or Kayne West)

 

The answer depends on whether or not you live in A-town.
Ludacris could be like redstar's muse or something. Teaching him about life and shit.

 

"pop rap" .. yea that describes the crap on the radio. I like some hip hop but also like music that has has intelligent lyrics and too much hip hop is always about the same things .. about bein a thug and how rich it made them, selling drugs, hurting people, disrespect for women and prison.

 

I even like music with unintelligent lyrics. In fact, ever since I had the realisation you don't have to affiliate yourself in any way with the music you listen to I have enjoyed more music and enjoyed it to greater extent. This made me able to open up to some of the most ludicrous gangsta rap which, if you are able to listen objectively, has the rawest funkiest beats and rhythms, paints an excellent picture of a subculture I do not care to take notice of by experience, does the most creative job in dissing other 'niggas' and are deliciously honest and void of hypocrisy where it comes to their money and hoe craving tendencies. Are they glorifying despicable things? Maybe, but those things are already part of our reality (this makes me think of theGhosts perspective on this but nevermind ) and they like putting it to music. Shit is just real!

 

It's worse than going on the defensive - every time I see you respond, it's almost as if you've only skimmed the response and never actually considered it, and then you go and ask some stupid continuation of the same question or turn it into a washed-up self-pity wallow, like a pig in mud.

And yeah, I don't know about you, but I'd hate it if my father took every opportunity he saw to wallow hysterically in himself, making whiny troll comments about how sad his life is. Seriously, have you ever considered that there might come a time in life to grow a pair and DEAL WITH YOURSELF??? You're not ready for jack shit - you can't seem to make your own friends, you're not ready for a relationship with a woman, and you're not ready to have a relationship with any potential kid you could have. You probably can't even figure out how to be kind to people without using your pity card - which, as I said, is a miserable fail of a manipulation to make friends. Buying people with pity does NOT work - that's the only thing I see coming from you, and I'm not buying into it.

See? Again, you're only concerned about making children - who in their right minds wants to make a baby from a test tube? That's not how things are supposed to work - it's supposed to be a relationship, one that grows, two people deciding they're ready to have a family, and then providing for them. You seem to habitually take the easiest way out - I'm getting a vibe along the lines of "I don't care about the relationship, I don't care about how things are supposed to work, let me stick my dick in a test tube to get a kid if that's the easiest way, for all I care".

And then the kid will grow up mentally abused, with all sorts of psychological disorders that you would completely unwittingly force upon him or her because of how hung up on yourself you are.

Trolling isn't just being malicious, it can also encompass being generally pathetic, which you excel at here. Why don't you stop attention whoring and try to take time to figure yourself out? I have more of a handle on who I am than you, for god's sake, and I've certainly been through more shit and am younger. Of course... you won't listen. You never will. I know exactly what kind of person you are. I have a friend exactly like you, without any of the diagnoses you have. He never listens either. So go - keep going to bars and feeling sad for yourself, never getting any fulfillment in life. And don't even think about saying that "Well, if I had a kid, I'd be fulfilled". You wouldn't.

You're 27. Grow up

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PcIVmGv849A

 

I never said I felt sorry for myself at all. I stated facts and that's it. I don't think stating social anxiety is feeling sorry for myself. You know that you have been through more than me? I'm not here to compare and don't really care, but how do you know?

And also it's because the responses aren't always entirely accurate.

 

All the responses might not have been accurate, but they were relevant. The only thing I see you do with them is turn them back into your little sob story about living with schizo, not having a kid, or patting yourself on the back for having had some kind of trauma, as if it were a credential. Believe me, it doesn't work. People do care... a little, as if part of a sad story, then they pick up, move on, end of story. You're problem is that you've turned that sad story into your waking life, you live in it and for it, you wallow in it and enjoy it. It feels a bit like a little kid with a safety blanket, doesn't it? It's so incredibly scary to even think about taking it away?

Of course you've never admitted that you feel sorry for yourself; it's implied in every single sentence you write. How do I know what you're doing? I just challenged your credentials, your precious claim to fame, and you get all uptight about it. Honestly, kid, I don't feel like repeating my own story because I'm not looking for sympathy from anyone, unlike yourself. I grew up. Meanwhile you haven't realized there are some people who get dealt hands far worse than anything you could ever imagine in the big game of life and still manage to do a lot better with themselves than you are, because they don't let their disability become them.

You know that that's exactly what you're doing, without even realizing - your putting your excuses out on the forum in the hopes of getting us all to wallow in them, and then you'll feel justified for all this. That's how you're trolling. I don't appreciate it. Take your baggage over to the mental health section where we can actually be of any help to you, or get a therapist.

 

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I never said my life was bad. I'm retired at age 27 and I'll have 3 kids at least some day. You're probably just confusing a little manic ranting for my whole story. Honestly, I type things on here, then I come back a few hours later after going out into the real world and I'm like... what the hell was I talking about? The Ludaccris concert? Lol. That doesn't even make sense.