When I was 19, I was lusting after a 62 year old that came into the gas station where I worked every other evening to have someone sign off on the fuel delivery. His shirt was always always dirty with grease from moving the fittings to the tanks, and he always had a slight scent of diesel exhaust. From what I could tell, he had a very nice body, beautiful face, and loved to laugh. I never felt confident enough to suggest anything, and regretted it for a long time. Still do find myself occasionally wondering what it would have been like. The only man that I have ever slept with that had some years on me, I was 20 and he was 32. It wasn't the greatest sexual experience of my life by any means.
So making a move on this older man in his 70s might qualify as incest, or borderline incest? In other words, he's related to you like family?
My boyfriend is 15 years older than me and the sex is incredible. Also we have a very loving relationship. Alot in common, etc.
I have a thing for older men. Guys my age just don't do it as well for me. Every time I've been intimate with an older guy has been amazing. It's always been 10+ years difference between our ages.
went out with a man 10 years old, and it was the best ever, sex was amazing and the relationship was very loving and caring,
I'm 30 and had sex with a 51 year old last night. It was good as usual. But he's kinda boring. It is thrilling though to think that when I was a baby he was 21.
There are more than a ton of reason's why younger women may find sex with an older gentleman more exciting, the biggest one may be the "Taboo" nature of it. On the flip side, Older guys like myself, who have reached an age (me 51) are at a point where we know our days of "Exciting Sex" are all but over, simply because most women our own age are past the "Fertile" years. Having sex with a fertile young woman satisfies more of a guys sexual excitement than most men are willing to say. It is one of the most critical building blocks to a mans sexual arousal. Most younger guys don't give this a 2nd thought most of the time and are more likely worried about getting you pregnant than older guys who would truly love nothing more than an opportunity cum inside a fertile young female. If the young female is receptive to getting impregnated by an older guy, then she likely won't find a more caring and attentive lover! Also worth mentioning is that the knowledge vault of excite and kinkiness that older men have access to, may take a younger female a lifetime to act it all out!
I'm 47, married to a 24 y.o. We have an 18 month-old, and our second child will be born in March. This is the first marriage for both of us. I didn't set out to date and marry younger women. It was more like, I grew older, but the women I dated stayed the same age. As I got older, and more confident in my career and my life, younger women simply gravitated towards me. In college, I was dating college classmates. When I was 27, I was dating in the 21 to 25 range, mostly actresses (I was living in LA). When I was 32, my serious gf was 25. When I was 38, I was seeing women in their mid- to early-twenties. At 42, I nearly married a 27 y.o. Then at 44, I met my wife, who was then 21. In all honesty, I've never made much of an effort to attract women. I'm no pick-up artist or anything of the sort. But I realize that my professional and personal success acts as a magnet to women. Before I got married, I didn't date older women because they were so defensive. Often, they overcompensated this defensiveness with over-brashness, over-aggressiveness, which I find a turn-off. Often they'd say, "He's intimidated by a strong, successful woman"—but that's not it at all. I'm irritated and bored by a woman who is constantly "challenging" me, as if relationships were a competition, instead of a healthy and happy way of spending time together. Anyway, on the sexual front, as an older man, I'm calmer and more in-control of what I want. I'm not into the "wham-bang-thank-you-ma'am" approach. For me, sex ought to last at least an hour or two, not be done in three minutes. Also, as I'm lucky enough to afford it, I can take my girlfriends (and now wife) to fun, romantic places, or cool activities, or travel. Just my 2¢.
My first time with a older guy was when i had 15 years old, he was 36years old, since that first time now the 80% is sex with mature guys, they are 40 to 60 years old, but the most older was 56 years old. Sex, i dont know how explain it, i love them, and i love the age difference. An 5% is sex with younger guys, more younger than me, its nice be the teacher of sex and show them what i know about sex, and the last 15% with people around my age more or less. In a future i want a mature boyfriend and get pregnant, i do not care his age for have a family.
The first man I was sexually involved with was 25, when I was 13. All of my male sexual partners have been older than me, almost always 10-15 years older. Very few have been younger than that, only recently. I have never been involved with a man younger than myself, and have no desire to, as I am not attracted to them.
I had a long-term affair with a woman 10 years my junior when I was 36. She was so much more experienced than my then wife, and for that matter, me! She was full of energy and highly-sexed. She always dated older guys and valued the way they were willing to go the extra mile to make sure she was satisfied...and satisfied again straight afterwards too...! I guess everyone is different. I am sure there are some very attentive, caring lovers among the younger men, and equally, some women who just want a big cock, regardless of whether it is attached to a younger or older guy.
My long-term partner is 14 years my senior. I've never thought much of it, sexually or otherwise. I don't notice a difference between him and his younger counterparts (say 18 or older). I'm mostly content, and the difference in years is quickly forgotten, if the chemistry is there.
Ah yes = Memories https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-tDDL1RxXRc The year was 1977, I was a young 17 year old, she was my friends 'Auntie' of 31/32 years (so the song lyrics are quite apt) Experience dictated the tempo, the sensitivity of touch, kiss and caress was so evident, that I remembered and enacted upon for future sexual encounters - I think it that which is the crux of the matter, and therefore applies just as well when the sex roles are reversed (Although still waiting for my opportunity to deliver such to 'my' junior of 10 years to express such) (I'm sure there's another song title in there)
I'm 21 and currently sleeping with a guy that's 41. He's got an amazing body and tbh his age never really crosses my mind. The sex is amazing so I'm not complaining anyway On the other hand, I'm also 'seeing' a guy who's 20 and no one has ever made me cum as hard as he does so I don't agree with the comments about younger guys not knowing how to please a woman
I'm in a long term relationship with a girl roughly 20 years younger than I am. I've always ended up with younger girls, and apparently she's always been with older guys. So it's worked out for us pretty well, lol.
Well, I will try it in May this year, I go to china to meet my soulmate , she is 20 and I am 70. If I survive I will let you know