I think i am rubbish at sex i had sex with my boyfriend it was both our first ever time. It only lasted about 2 mins and he cummed. He said it was good but after it we were watching a film and there was a sex bit in it and he got hard??? If we just had sex and it was good for him why would he be hard again he has hinted about us doing it again but im too worried that it wont be good for him again this ever happened to anyone else? I cant ask my friends because they dont know we done it and i am embraced to tell them this
Sex is great Michelle but it's not fantastic every single time. You need to get to know what works for you both and enjoy your lovemaking however long it lasts. The more you do it, the more you learn and the better it is. Just enjoy yourselves and don't let worrying spoil it for you both.
Well anyone could be "bad" at sex. It is definitely subjective. It may have actually lasted about 2 minutes because maybe that's as long as he lasts sometimes. Nevertheless NEVER be afraid to talk to him about it. Sex should be fun for both parties and one way to ensure that is to make sure that there is communication. Be sure to ask him if he is sure that he enjoyed his time. And if not then ask him what he likes and see what you are wiling to do. Also be sure to let him know what you are into as well so that, again, it can be enjoyable for both parties. Also, if how long he can last is limited, I'd suggest that you might want to suggest to him some foreplay of some sorts that it can be fun for you, what ever you'd like. But ultimately, just talk to him. It's the best way to ensure that you two can have enjoyable sex.
Well what were you doing? If you're kinda just laying there like a plank of wood, should probably get alive and interact more.
dang it, I had this whole "fuck her like a ragdoll" post and it turns out to be a chick 0p. .. oh well , youll get better at it.
Whatever you do....do NOT base your sexual expectations/judgements on your first time (or even your 8th or 10th time). It's a little different and maybe awkward for everyone on their first time. You get more comfortable with time and experience. Communication means a lot. And...if he came in 2 minutes...it probably wasn't very bad for him at all and I bet he is secretly wishing he had lasted longer. So talk to him. The fact that both of you may be wondering how you performed is no fault to either of you. You get more confident and sure of what you like with more time.
[SIZE=9pt]Well it was the first time (does make a difference if you/he were virgins) but regardless the first time with someone is very exhilarating and it maybe that he was so turned on that he cum real fast.[/SIZE] [SIZE=9pt]Every time I cum its good, but not always great. You sound young and a young man gets hard when the wind blows. Would he wanted to do it again, if it wasn’t good for him? You could have climbed on him for round two, and he would last much longer.[/SIZE] [SIZE=9pt]As others have said communication how can one know likes/dislikes without communication? If you read through theses forums you can see there are many different thing people like. [/SIZE]
Lolz, 98, so I assume you are 18, he around the same age, why at 18 does he get hard again 1/2 houir later?
