Girls Dont Even Talk To Me At University

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by atsizat9050, Mar 10, 2015.

  1. Just_a_woman

    Just_a_woman Member

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    OP, you come across as someone with whom it is quite difficult to dialogue. Many of your posts are asking people to repeat themselves, to explain to you something they've written. If you're like this in real life, that could put people off. I've noticed most people don't like to talk to one who never gets it, as in understanding what is being said, giving real input while conversing, one who gives you the impression he's actually listening to the conversation. If you're always asking questions, but never actually saying anything, you're like a dead weight asking to be carried around. Not many people like to carry dead weights.

    Perhaps that's the problem.

    It could also be linked to appearance. If you aren't handsome, there will be less people wanting to talk to you.
     
  2. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    well, you can try whatever you want. in some situations, that approach is exactly what will work. it's just that that approach is also how most friend zones begin.
     
  3. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    I'd be more concerned how that question makes you sound

    Treating with respect also can be taken as you can control yourself around them cos they are not hot enough
     
  4. atsizat9050

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    It's just that I lost my confidense in me. So I feel like talking about how hopeless case I should be or how bad I should be :( I just share my feelings :(
     
  5. thapalauan

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    You again. Okay first off you can't just be bi.Really.

    Join a club or some activities. Open your mouth and talk boy.Duh!
     
  6. atsizat9050

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    When I try to talk to them girls in the class, I am seen horny. I think I should learn not to care if they are gonna see me horny. In either ways no girls talk me so why care they are gonna see you horny for the reason I try to talk to them girls in the class?
     
  7. Sleeping Caterpillar

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    ask if they're horny too
     
  8. atsizat9050

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    They would say "are you fucking outta your mind" and "stay the fuck away from me" Their answers would be like that.
     
  9. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Its turkey mainly, girls get a name for themselves, all their friends and family would turn on them.

    There is not much use asking people from some of these other countries
     
  10. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    He says he's too horny to talk normally to girls. It's not mainly Turkey, or girls. This seems to happen to guys all over the world :p (happily most seem to get over it, it is mainly an age/confidence thing). It's between his ears if he can't normally talk to a person that happens to be of the opposite sex.
     
  11. atsizat9050

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    No. I mean that Trying talk to girls is seen horny. It's like forcing girls to talk to you because they are not talking to you. That's why I said it's seen horny. You see? But I shoud not care if they'll see me horny for the reason I wanna talk to them. Right?
     
  12. atsizat9050

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    Are things really that different where you live?
     
  13. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    You care because it disables you.
     
  14. atsizat9050

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    what do you mean?
     
  15. Asmodean

    Asmodean Slo motion rider

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    Take a guess. I mean it quite literally. You care for a reason. You want to talk to girls but you can't. Others can. There is an issue.
     
  16. atsizat9050

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    I'd like it better talking to a female than a male. But today again I talked to males. I am not able to talk to females. Its my 3rd year at university and I cant talk to a female. I find girls conceited. I can hardly say hi to them. When I try to make a conversation, they act bad to me like I shouldnt talk to them females. They are so cold to me when I try to talk to them.
     
  17. IMjustfishin

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    smoking a joint with people is a universal ice breaker, thats how i make friends when i move to a new place.
     
  18. atsizat9050

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    Weed is illegal here. I am not living in usa.
     
  19. IMjustfishin

    IMjustfishin Member

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    its also illegal here in the usa
     
  20. AceK

    AceK Scientia Potentia Est

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    take the ghb man ... you wont be able to keep your hands off of them
     

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