guys, tell me the reality please

If you are in your 30's then you are not old enough to worry about your age especially if you are attractive and in great shape. Most guys would be lucky to land someone like you especially if you have a great personality. If you feel that your guy may be looking for someone younger then maybe he is just too inmature to be with you. I'm 55 and have dated women when I was in my 40's that were in their late 20's but outside of the sex there was little that we had in common. I ended up marrying a woman 4 years older than me and I couldn't be happier.

 

Give me a more mature and sexually experienced woman any day, rather than a 20 something.

Young looks and young body are not as appealing as a sexy older lady with bags of sex appeal and a wealth of sexual know-how.

Mature beats youth for me every time with regards to great sex.

 

Maturity/MILF is one of the most viewed topics of porn.

 

I think it really depends on each person. Some people prefer older, some prefer younger, some without any preference. I've always had younger partners myself, although I certainly have found myself being attracted to older women in the past as well. We all age, so I know in my head that there isn't much point in worrying about that. The reality is, I guess a lot of us do worry regardless.

For me, her personality and how compatible she and I are as a couple have always been the actual deciding factors in terms of whether that relationship can last or not. I've never dwelled solely on the physical side of the things because I know doing so can prevent me from seeing what is essentially more important. I personally don't believe that just because someone is "older", or "younger", that person is automatically "better". In the cases like this, I percieve "better" to be something more along the lines of "better emotional connection", "better intimate interactions", "better life as a couple". I believe all of those are the products of high compatibility between two people regardless of age and, once you and your partner are "linked" in that special way, the chance of one of you "straying" to seek love from someone else(in this case, let's say "younger") becomes rather slim. That's what I believe, but I've always been a hopeless romantic......not that it's a bad thing, lol.

 

My wife is 4 years older than me, she is now 41 and so far as i am concerned more beautiful now than then. Sure, things are not exactly as tight as they used to be, but i wouldn't change anything about her. I ask her not to dye her hair as i find the gray that is coming in gorggorgeoust i think it is the diffrence between love and infatuation.

 

My wife is 4 years older than me, she is now 41 and so far as i am concerned more beautiful now than then. Sure, things are not exactly as tight as they used to be, but i wouldn't change anything about her. I ask her not to dye her hair as i find the gray that is coming in gorggorgeoust i think it is the diffrence between love and infatuation.

 

I am 43, and I don't look like I did in my 20's, I no longer have the stretch mark free, pre-kid body. And? I still find myself an attractive person, both mentally and physically. What other people think is of little importance to me, because I am not trying to impress anyone.

OP, it ain't your looks that are the problem....your self-esteem, vanity, pride, ,sure...any one of those perhaps. You're getting older, embrace it. You sure as hell can't avoid it.