My favourite postion is doggy style, and I absolute love this position with my girlfriend but, I always seem to finish farrrrr too quickly, within 30 seconds I would say. I can usually last 5-15minutes but I always finish quickly in this position. I try to stay calm and not get excited but it doesn't work. Any advice?
I think this is so common. I love to be taken doggy style and it is my husband's favorite position as well. But literally, he might last 15-20 seconds max when thrusting which leaves me sexually frustrated if I haven't had an orgasm yet. One of the reasons why sex is so incredible when I cuckold my husband is that my new lover takes me doggy style and thrusts hard and deep for a good 5-10 minutes straight! My husband is so jealous but so turned on at the same time.
Generally speaking that is the point of a favorite position. It gets you aroused to the point where you don't last. The combination of visual, mental and sensation combine to throw you into orgasm. C/S, Rev J
Can you not get hard again a few minutes later to continue to fuck your girl? Or maybe try taking half of a viagra? That will keep you going all night.
I can typically last 15 - 20 minutes, but in doggystyle with my wife I can't get past 10 thrusts, and frequently barely make it to 5 thrusts. Like your husband I am hugely jealous of my wife's ex-boyfriend. He can last over an hour and during that he'll give her long hard deep pounding for 20 minutes before changing position and then go back to it two more times going 10 to 15 minutes each time. And she orgasms in about 5 minutes and then again and again in that position.
Sounds like you guys need to get more creative or save that position for the very end. And if you finish too fast, you still have hands and mouths that work until you are ready to go again.
A guy who can lasts over 10 minutes in doggie style would be a godsend. Most can't. I know most say they can though
I have kind of the opposite problem: doggy is one of the only positions that I can get off with. For you, though, I would recommend waiting until the end to use doggy, try to distract yourself while in doggy, and, if you can, have a round two after you cum.
The position that makes me cum quickly is actually missionary. So I save it to the last after she gets off in her fav position (her on top) Try adding more positions to your "average sex lineup".
