I would never hit a girl, but then again I’ve never really been hit. The few times I’ve always managed to dodge or deflect the punch. Hotwater
"I'd never hit a women" they say. Meanwhile in the next thread "I enjoy watching my wife being dominated by big black cocks smashing her"
Why? I am asking as a person who has been hit alot in my life, especially as a cild. I seldom hit back....seldom.....the couple of times I did, it stopped forever...once to a group of girls on top of me and I finally I had had it....and another time....a family member...I could not take it anymore....I did not hurt them, but they knew never to hit me again after that. I was finally bigger than them.
As you can see from the video i posted, sometimes you cant "just leave" a situation. The guy on the train.. the guy sitting at his desk in class.. in one of the other scenes u have to watch the full video but the guys walks away from the girl but she keeps following him.
I would agree with what Ty said in those situations....and then get the hell away as fast as you can....and never look back.
Much of the domestic violence between men and women is consensual, it's inflicted by both parties. But when a man is in an abusive situation, if he hits her back after she has hit him? Society looks at him like he's a piece of shit and that she's an innocent victim. but if he stands there and lets her beat his ass? He's a coward and wimp who got beat up by a girl and his pride and masculinity is forevor soiled by public opinion. Those who are able to freely wlak away from abusive relationships should do so asap, those who have the foresight to see what lurks for them, should they get involved? They should take it as a warning and stay out.
Yes, I am an emancipated person with feministic tendencies Which means if any kind of person hits another person they technically have deserved a hit back. BUT I would not soon act upon this principle at all in reality I am also mainly speaking in theory where it comes to myself because I can't recall the last time I got hit in anger (by a woman). I apply the same principle on myself. And have not been in a punching fight in over a decade either :cheers2:
Hear these sorts of questions a lot, generally i think the best solution is just to take gender out of the equation completely. The ONLY time it should be acceptable to hit someone (male or female) is when doing otherwise would result in serious injury to you or somebody else. If someone is hitting you and is doing so without enough force to do you any real harm, then it is not acceptable to hit them using your full force just because "they started it" (what are you, 5?) It Might be acceptable to use reasonable force to restrain them, in order to prevent the situation from escalating. this is different from "hitting" someone. IMHO, people should train in restraint holds, takedowns etc so their first reaction to a violent but essentially non-dangerous situation isn't just to go straight for using their fists.
Restraint holds are ideal, just of course be careful and don't apply too much pressure or take them down to hard,especially with a female.
Yes, if they deserve it. Once they start getting violent or aggressive, they deserve a good slap. Once you put your fists up and getting ready to fight, then gender means nothing if you're just going to act like animals.
i think its time we get over putting gender ahead of behavior. the only thing that determines what anyone deserves is how they act. one caviate though. we also need to get over judging anyone without know everything that pertains to their behavior. possibly even recognize our own imperfect abilities to do so at all.