Please feel free to pass on as you wish with my blessings. The Spirit gave these words to me, and now they are not mine. Namaste', Viv (Tmpledrgn)
NAMASTE One thing to add is after many gatherings and show it is not just one sex and age group that does this.Both brothers and sistahs.There needs to be more respect for are bodies and minds on all age levals.Only then are we true to who we are as kind loving spirits. In Love and Light Eccofarmer
thanks a lot man. im a 17 year old teen and im always thinking about sex!! but i still really understand everything u said and totaly support it. i appreciate ur thought towards the beauty of women.
That was the most beautiful post I have ever read on the forums. It actually made me feel like the time spent reading it was worth it. thank you so much for sharing your insights with us in such a meaningful and glorious way. you seem to be a truly wise man whom our mother and father have blessed immensely
Why thank you, Sis. I can't tell you how much I needed that right now. Goin through some speedbumps on the road of life, he he. Many, many hugs and blessings of peace to you. -TD-
~* Just perusing thru the forums and came across this. Too good to let it fall off the page. Sexual predators arent always the older guys too. Good advice for all. I know I've seen things like this happen and have run them off just by being present in the situation. Can't pull bullshit over someone else thats been around,hehe *~
it was nice, and mostly true, but what is true about this should be common sense, not some divine teaching. the one i can relate to the most is number 3 (for the others really apply to women) and i try to get people to spread the love and happiness of being a true hippy. you captured that element with wholeness. but I dissagree with your comment on older men. That sort of classification and 'warning' of certain 'types' of people is very un-hippy like. Older men will probably like younger women simply because it is natural for any man to find a younger woman more attractive and fun to flirt with, not simply because they think younger women are 'easy'. But, who cares if the man is only looking for sex, if they attract a woman then tehre is nothing wrong, it is not as if the woman has been decieved by her feelings. Anotehr part of being a hippy is being in touch with your feelings, and not living by bounds such as making age any form of issue for restricting sex (besides legal age that is) and other interractions. while date raping anotehr is a very bad thing, wooing them for sex is all part of what humans do. If its a choice between an old man who wants sex but is really attractive to you, and a younger guy who is sencere but doesnt turn you on, then why deny your feelings? as long as you practice number 2 and keep common sense involved.
I'd like to point out briefly that it often is the other way around. It has hapenned to me even here. I was, and still am a hippie by all means, and and such I still live like one, but that does not include to me sexual looseness, I have taken a more secure and peaceful lifestile. If anyone of any age does send me a PM and mention art or music or friendship first and then decide to turn it into a "praise my boobs" kind of thing, I would rather you say that at first so I know what I'm up against and refuse further interaction. I have a strong relationship with someone close to my age, and a one- to- one faithful relationship is, or can be part of being a hippie too. Thanks in advance. "I wanna love you, but I can't love you".
I very much appreciate your advice to the young ladies here. But I would like to say that you painted with a very broad brush. There are men of all ages which prey on women, and they do it in many ways. A warning concerning drug usage and sex makes sense, a warning about alcohol and sex makes sense, a warning about being in unprotected enviroments makes sense, a warning of protected sex makes sense, but a warning about older guys and sex does not make sense. My lovely wife is 15 years younger than I am. Our flirting and dating had nothing to do with age, nor did our sex. It had everything to do with love. As an old hippy, my inner truths are guidelines for my actions. Those truths are of maturity, meditation, and experiance. Many younger women should seek out "older hippies as mates. They will find that older hippies have many things going for them that younger, inexperianced, immature, and unenlightened men do not.
This is one of those amazing things that touches you right to the core. Love and Peace to you, Brother. Many Blessings.
Mellow, I hope I can call you friend. I did not say what it was you went to. I said that older men are not the only pervs trying to do young hippy girls. And, I said that some women would find themselves very happy with an older man. As to why, I will say this. No matter what you do, and I do not know how old you are. But, there is nothing other than time which will increase a mans maturity, wisdom, and experiance. No matter how good looking you are, street smart, Cool and layed back like you are, with age you to will become more experianced, mature, and wiser. And that my friend is truth.