I don't get it. We women can wear string bikinis looking nearly naked with some of the styles in swim wear we can chose from. Our nipples can be seen pushing out against the fabric of our swim suite, wet or dry. Our breasts can be barely covered. You don't have to look hard to spot dozens upon dozens of the infamous "cameltoe" bulges as we lay tanning that men tend to seek out in the styles that we wear. Yet when a man wears a swimming suite that produces a prominent bulge of his genitalia in public then it becomes a major issue. My boy friend and I were at the public swimming pool this past summer. We happened to come upon an argument between the pool manager and a male patron. The pool manager was telling this man that his swim trunks were not appropriate for the public swimming pool and to either leave or buy a pair of trunks inside. He wasn't wearing speedos they were the spandex shorts that fit him like a glove. I admit his bulge left nothing to the imagination, a perfect out line of his lengthy genitalia. The man did leave cursing all the way out of the pool area flipping the pool manager off. So why is it more socially accepted that we can lay around nearly naked, bulging "cameltoes" and "nipple tents" while a man can be picked out of the crowd for wearing a swimsuit that is deemed socially unaccepted? To me it was wrong for the man to be singled out like that. Not that I didn't mind eyeing "it" but all men are not created equal in that department. There were men there wearing speedos, but didn't have such a prominent bulge has he did. They were more of the "hunchback" bulges, uninteresting and some had no business even wearing speedos! What are your views on that incident?
Personally I find that all these costumes that leave nothing to the imagination as being far more sexually provocative than no costume at all. Simple nudity is not a sexual thing - it's merely the way we were intended to be. I'm a naturist & was raised to be unashamed of my body, seeing as it is nothing more or less than nature gave me. Anyone who has been to a naturist resort will know that the newbies are always apparent (guys anyway) as they are the ones staying close by the pool, ready to dive in if their arousal begins to show, but the funny thing is that in such an environment such arousal very rarely takes place as the state of everyone being naked is not arousing at all. In fact, most eroticism is usually based on what is concealed from view rather than what is in clear, plain view. It's time we did away with the remnants of these old Victorian decency values & accepted the naked body for what it is - something we all have. After all, to cover it up is something that is unnatural, and therefore more perverted than to leave it bare.
yeah he probably was jealous, i wouldn't mind if more guys wore revealing togs, would be interesting to see what other guys are packing especially guys like the one you described
Yeah I've always found this interesting. Even among a lot of women I know they don't like to see men in tight swimwear or anything that bulges really. Another thing along those lines is public erections. It's actually illegal in many states if I'm not mistaken. And yet like you mention FallonSL hard nipples and cameltoe is a norm. Maybe it's just that the male body is out of fashion now? Maybe it's that a lot of men are creepy about their sex... or maybe they're creepy about their sex cause it's taboo... I don't know. I just remember going through lots of trauma as a teenager in school freaking out because of my constant boner syndrome. Hell it didn't end when I was a teenager. Random wood still happens. And I'm lucky mine hugs my body so I can do the duck and tuck. I had a friend in my middle school french class who wasn't so lucky and got called on to demonstrate something by standing on a chair. He was a little embarrassed.
Human beings are such a bunch of idiots. A dick? So goddamn what? Half the human population has a penis. So what? As I live and experience the idiotic human idiot-race, I must believe we are all a bunch of goddamn idiot beings.
I'm not "creepy" about my sex... Hey everyone, I HAVE a PENIS! Big damn deal.... (though mine is prettier than most..).
That's hypocritical BS. They should kick out all the women showing belly buttons and ankles with that thinking
