When During Sex Should I Make My Gf Orgasm?

Hey,

So I can make my GF Orgasm pretty much every time we have sex, so im wondering about the timing in order to make the whole thing better.
My GF says she can only orgasm once before she becomes to sensitive to do it more than once. We have gotten into the pattern (she hasnt
said anything, but im wondring about it) of me going down on her and making her Orgasm before we actually have "sex" in the traditional sence.

Im just wondering if making her orgasm before any sort of penis penitration makes her enjoy the intercourse less, and if shes just waiting for me to get off?

Any thoughts whould be great.

 

Switching it up and change are always good. Orgasms are great, but having a great chemistry/connection while having one is better. Change it up no doubt. Same old routine gets old and can make you feel like a performing monkey. Hope this helps.

 

There is the traditional goal of simultaneity, but I agree with the others who say "ask her".

One way to ask her might be to keep her at the edge until she asks you loudly.

 

Encourage her to take charge of the sexual act and decide when YOU should cum. She will let you know when the time is right.

 

My favorite is when you cum together, takes alot of control on both sides but when it happens it's very powerful

 

What works for us is to start with "foreplay" (whatever that is, since it's as much fun as anything else), including kissing, fondling and other attention to breasts, fingering her pussy. When she is good and wet, I go for the first stage of penile penetration and we fuck slowly and gently for a while until I sense she is getting ready. Then we move to oral sex, usually alternating with her sucking my dick followed by my eating her pussy. Once I start that, her orgasm is soon to follow, unless she pushes me away, signaling that she wants more of something else. We finish it off with me fucking her. It isn't a set pattern, but we move back and forth, up and down the scale of excitement. My focus is on pleasing her, which automatically pleases me.

 

You must ask her - everybody is different. In my experience (at least for the women I was with) they experienced the deepest and most intense sexual ecstasy and delight if I concentrated on them first - cunnilingus and / or fingering them to complete orgasm -before- moving in and trying to insert my penis into their vulva. They really appreciated it and said so - I tried to concentrate on them first, and I enjoy GIVING pleasure so much that by the time they climax I'm ready to go and if I would insert my penis into her vagina I'd probably only pump three or four times before going hard into an exploding orgasm...

But it depends on the girl. One woman I was with was MAD about penetration - she was fine with lots of cunnilingus and climaxing that way, but absolutely HUNGERED insanely to be penetrated - she explained that for her, there is NOTHING like an erect penis being slowly thrusted up into her vagina. She was more than willing to have no orgasm at all as long as I would just climb onto her, penetrate, and keep humping against her - she actually screamed with frustration if she was really hot and I didn't ram my penis into her - that too - she liked to be stabbed - e. g. no slow, gliding penetration, she wanted desperately for her vulva to be rammed full instantly, as hard and brutally as I could and as I thought my penis could stand.

Another woman was quite scared of penetration, and love me and offered it, but I could tell she was VERY uptight about having my penis inside her. She again could take or leave oral, but a long kissing and cuddling session, followed and mixed with -very- gentle touching on her vulva and breasts, then slow, steady masturbation of her pussy would drive her to absolute extremes where she'd shriek like a banshee with the intensity of her orgasms obtained that way. She LIVED from tenderness - kisses, whispered endearments, constant hugging, compliments, gently whispering to her, nuzzling her hair and face and neck, etc. - and her arousal would be instantly destroyed by just a hard look, or ANYTHING remotely rough.

The point being - TALK TO YOUR GF. It is fine to post here and get an opinion, but you are not going to solve your problem that way. Sit her down somewhere and in a non-sexual setting (don't start discussing this in bed while busy with sex with her) and try to communicate openly. Tell her you want to know what she likes, and LISTEN when she talks... it is the best way.

 

when ? well that depends on fast you want to watch tv