Complicated Girlfriend

All I do with cheese puff is run them ever so softly around my breasts. I can't get myself to masturbate to them. How do you do it?

 

well, imagery like that helps...

plus, you know, they taste really good. and i find that hot.

 

Does it matter what kind of cheese puffs they are? Or do the cheese puffs that belong to VG the only ones that turn you on?

 

good god VG, put that away!

cheetos puffs are like heaven in my mouth. and they feel nice in my pants too.

 

Took ages to find a vagina shaped beehive on google images, a whole three minutes....three times my usual attention span.

I assumed thats what she meant by beehive, i first thought of the hairdo

 

Now, that the two of you are together again, my work here is done.

Have fun you two, but don't do anything I wouldn't do.

 

That gives them plenty of rope!

C/S,
Rev J

 

Are you calling me a whore?

How did you know?

I thought I hid my whorish way well.

 

Easy set up!

C/S,
Rev J

 

You're talking in riddles. Stop confusing me!

 

I am no expert.

Here are my thoughts....she thinks them having sex with her shows they like her...she needs to work on slef love.

You can not be OK with her having sex and get jealous. You invited that on yourself.

 

I'm all for open relationships, but it seems to me like you are getting taken advantage of. She may have a serious problem and can't stop herself, or she may be totally playing you and be fully aware. Either way, my advice is to have a serious conversation with her. Assert yourself. Do not allow her to deflect you with placating words and phrases like, "You know I love you." Get to the bottom of this or get out. This sounds like an emotionally leaching situation. I don't like to advise people to do the drastic thing, but it may be best to just leave her. She is almost certainly lying to you about who she's with and why and what they are doing together.

This is coming from experience, by the way, and I am seeing a lot of red flags in the way you talk about her. Please consider your actions carefully. You deserve to be treated with respect, and that is the opposite of what she is doing. I believe she is playing the part of the wounded animal so that she will not be held to a commitment. You can't force someone to commit, but you can leave them and avoid being hurt any further. But whatever you decide, please do assert your fears and opinions the next time you speak to her. that is imperative.

 

Why?

Why does anyone 'deserve' to be treated with respect

 

I think your first sentence is a lie. I think you are not for open relationships. I don't see any dishonesty. What I see is a man in denial. It seems to me she has been clear regarding what she can offer right now, and that he wants a kind of relationship that is not on the table. He's not being disrespected, he's being silly. He should not fuck women from work, and he should definitely not get involved with women fucking everyone else at work. That's just asking for problems. And he should not be in an open relationship when what he really pines for is exclusivity. He should bounce, from her, from the job, from all of it. Just not for the reasons you think.

 

I agree with Mocha. Fucking someone you work with is a bad idea for the simple reason that if it goes south you still have to work with them.

C/S,
Rev J

 

??? I was in an open relationship for a little over a year. Lol it isn't a true open relationship if one of the partners isn't into it.

As for the rest, you may be right, and I'm not here to debate someone else's life. But I don't see how you can gather that I don't like open relationships from what I said. That really wasn't a fair conclusion.

 

You're right. That was too quick a judgment. I apologize.