Cheated On Bf. Need Advice.

Which 10% is the lady?

 

Move on - he will never give it up. Whatever you do will never be good enough for him. He will hold it over your head for as long as you allow him to do so.

What you did was wrong though! Learn from that!

 

The guy's treating you like shit not because you cheated on him but because he's a prick. Dump him, move out, join a gym and train your Pokemon. It'll help you keep your mind off him while you meet new people.

 

Yes, you made a mistake. No, you are not worthless. Learn from it. Some women stay with their SO just because they've invested so much time in it. Dont fall into tjis trap. This guy is abusing you. This is not love Love keeps no record of wrongs. There are other ways to earn back his trust than what he's doing to you. This is sexual abuse. GET OUT. think about this for a moment... Would you want this guy to be a father to a daughter, a son? Look at his behavior? Would you want your daughter to be in a relationship like yours? Would you want your son to treat his SO this way? Get some help for your self esteem. One mistake does not define who you are.

 

I would like to add that not only are there 'other ways to earn back his trust' but the current method being used in OP is no way to do it.

^^ This!

 

I've done the same stupid stuff time and time again! He feels you owe him to prove you are his to do whatever he wants. But if you dropping panties just for the sake of making him happy then you probably aint enjoying it.Was the sex with the other guy good?

 

GET OUT!


In the future, I hope you find a relationship that fulfills you as this one obviously did not.

 

you dont desire other cocks but you flew over 1000 miles for a dick ? yes he should dump you and get a faithful girl. if you are a guy and still stay with your girl knowing she fucked some else it means your a bitch. maybe not every guy wants to be a bitch

 

Nice story... thinking about if I should buy it or not... most likely not... anyway thinking about what I would do.... hmmmm.... slavery? 24/7 slavery? don't think that I would do it. After some point things have to rest and not exploited over and over again...