I Truly Hate People.

Losing the magic of life is a cold road to go down. It's the price you pay/or the treasure you obtain(depending on what you are comfortable with, as far as life is concerned),for analyzing instead of just living.

To each their own.

I'm not trying to convince anyone of anything, but I'd like to ask a question out of curiosity... Do you feel that you've come to a final conclusion, or do you think there's even the slightest chance that your current beliefs don't allow you to see things in a different way?

I guess I'm not really answering questions that were asked, lol.

 

i am sorry. I just don't see the beauty in the constant woe is me dialogue...The I am getting married one day and the I am so alone the next day...and mostly, the interrupting of A CONVERSATION i WAS HAVING ONE DAY.....when they had all day to say what they wanted to to the person i was talking to...or could have waitied until i was finished to swoop into my conversation.
I guess you are all buddies in chat room....but I would not dare barge into that.

 

Thankyou. LOL not it wasn't an e-drama. : D

She's said all this apologising stuff, so there's no ambiguity there. But my resentment goes to the fundamentals, both for me and herself.
Given that we'd agreed the key stuff years ago, I'm rather put out now to say the least.
Sorry, I don't feel like elaborating at the moment.

Nobody will hate you for your appearance.

You call it losing the magic. I call it a dose of reality.
No, I won't change my mind on my conclusion. The truth is the truth, no matter how unpalatable or shitty tasting it is.

 

<scratches head>

LOL. Wrong thread, right? : D

 

Lol

 

I meant "magic" figuratively, btw.

Does the way you see reallity seem shitty, or unpalatable too you?

 

Yes it feels shitty. And its unpalatable. But to be forewarned is forearmed.

And thats worth more than a 100 tons of sugar coated shite.

 

To believe that all people are inherently good and pure and lovely is daft as balls.

To believe that everyone is evil, duplicitous, disloyal and self interested is daft as balls.

To adopt either of these positions, knowing them to be false, is cowardly. It shields you from having to engage in the process of sorting the wheat from the chaff. It is a process fraught with pain, betrayal frustration and heartache but also, joy, love, companionship and happiness.

Some people call it "life".

It is perfectly natural, particularly when smarting from recent a disappointment, to find oneself without the energy or desire to engage in this process. For most people though, this state passes in time.

 

Thanks for your post.

Life is learning from your mistakes. And not being had for a prick another time.
Humans have the capacity for good, evil and indifference. When you've been bitten by the snakes you think "stupid me". When you've been stabbed in the back by the "angels", then its time to take a cold look at reality. It would make more sense if I'd explained the details. But I don't really want to at the moment.

As an analogy, over 50% of marriages end in divorce. Good knows how many more, SHOULD end in it.
The truth is, as a species we're not particularly genuine towards others. Yes we should make the best of shit situations but we can't change facts.

 

Everybody experiences something like that at some point, and goes through that same thought process. It won't last forever.

I'm not sure anybody can become fully mature until they've been hurt deeply.

You appear to be in the anger stage of grief now. The process doesn't vary much from one person to another, and it's not something you can control.

 

i don't believe in love at all, i think it's not real. it's just garbage made up by people. it's not true. i'd rather live on the street than believe in love.

 

Hmm, but you see as a person I'm not "normal". Last time, I channeled what was anger that time into something else. A business as it happened. The time before, I decided that blind trust was nonsense and held that position until the last time ie many years later (was it around 7 years or so?). Ok this time I let my guard down - hence my "stabbed in the back by angels" comment. So realistically I won't again buy into the lines/beliefs I was sold previously. It can be a burden, but I've got a type of "iron will".

Grief? No I feel she "died" a while back. Replaced by "someone else" in her body, that type of thing. I'm not angry about any "slight" on me, only that she doesn't do whats right for HER. Yes I'm sad for the situation. And my non-faith in others stance has been reaffirmed, but its not like "anger". Maybe I can resolve it all by discussion, if infact I can be bothered. But I feel pretty sore, regardless.

 

How would you know what somebody else's experience has been?

Borderline meaningless word.

 

My cats love each other. Me too.

But between humans? Yes, I think its the easiest way to play someone. Drugs can feel nice too. But you shouldn't binge on them.

 

The cost of loving and trusting is the risk that you can be betrayed. The cost of never being betrayed is never being able to love or trust.

 

They have, and they always will. It's how life is.

 

Oh, I get it now. So, it's about a girl. I thought you actually hated people. I guess I should have not gotten so personal then. Psh. Ah well.

 

My boyfriend and I like to look at each other and exclaim "I hate people!" When someone is being an idiot when were out together. It's normally how we start our "stories of dumbasses we met that day" when we get home too. We don't really mean it though, it's just fun to complain sometimes.

 

People are the worst, but that's no excuse for hating them. How can you truly hate something so low? Hating people is like hating pond scum.

This probably sounds really negative, but I don't mean it in a negative way. Pond scum is beautiful to my eyes.

 

Most of that is just defensive BS though, and everyone kind of knows it


Dont bother interacting with someone based on a short term emotional response, it cuts out all future possibilities


If everyone that has interacted with you thinks you are selfish and lazy whatever excuse you give for not bothering with humans will fall on deaf ears