I enjoy both giving and receiving oral pleasure, theres a post on another thread somewhere with my more in depth feelings about eating pussy which is my least favorite oral activity so find that if you care to as i dont feel like repeating myself, but find im sort of picky about certain variables when receiving. I dont generally like to face-sit because, if my partner is doing their job effectively, im not comfortable wiggling as much as i generally want to during the process. Being eaten from behind while on hands and knees is just generally not as potent to me as well, and 69 in any form doesnt ever seem to do the job because no matter how amazing the stimulation im getting I'm way too focused on my own preformance to get satisfaction. On the flip side; any time, any where, any position-i love love love to suck cock and have been told numerous times by numerous guys that im very skilled. The act in and of itself has a degratory nature to me that is instantly panty soaking.
Introduced to licking good pussy when I was 13, my kind teacher taught me some valuable lessons that I still use today... Treat a woman with respect, give her pleasurable satisfaction, and always take care of her needs and desires first...
There are times when my husband and I only have oral sex. I love sucking his cock and he also enjoys the deed. Back years ago before menopause, I would get my period which my husband always thought was gross to fuck so I sucked his cock a lot and swallowed every precious drop of his cum.
I've had girlfriends that didn't like giving oral or were really bad at doing it and they weren't around for long. Oral is my favorite act and I can't do without it no matter what she looks like or her personality. I could get along just fine with a mermaid.....not sure how I would pleasure her though. I dated a nurse who could not give a good BJ if her life depended on it, we lasted about 2 weeks.
Sucking cock is something I really enjoy doing, I mean I can't get enough. The sight, taste and feel of a mans cock makes me turn into a slut.
I like this perspective. I want to know that you want to go down on me because you like it. Are you the same in return, though? Do you genuinely like it? It's important. If I go down on a woman and enjoy myself the whole time, but the reciprocation is just perfunctory, it's still no good to me; let's proceed.
I suppose that derogatory has changed meaning, depending on who you are and when you were born. I was married to a woman 7 years my junior, and I finished on her face 60% of the time because she loved it. I think that might have to do with new standards and expectations. We divorced, and now I am dating a woman my age who sees facials as degrading. It's an odd situation, because I see cumming on her face as normal, whereas she would hate it. To me, it's special and something I would do out of love. To her, it's degrading. But I will suppress my experience and meet her expectations if she can't change her views. I will continue to view facials as love, not degradation. Because that's individual, not stereotypical opinion. She also doesn't want to completely shave her pussy because apparently that makes you a woman. On my side, the landing strip is proof you are a woman. You don't need hair on the lips. Sometimes the hair hurts us guys. I can only imagine when men try to enter without help. Ouch! Anyhow, since I posted initially, I have entered a relationship where I am SO MUCH happier. All of this has become less important, though not inconsequential since I discuss it here. I love you all. Thanks for talking this out with me.
So she doesn't want to get the filling on her face when she eats the pink twinkie! At least she will eat the pink twinkie! C/S, Rev J.
I started when I was 11 with another friend and a girl who was a friend also. We would all three preform oral on each other. Trust me we weren't good at it at first and when I would give head to him we had no idea what cumming was. We thought we had to go pee. Lol yes I'm a guy who is and always have loved women and been orally bi with guys. I love going down on a big cock sucking stroking licking and deep thrusting. My goal is always to swallow. The more they cum the better. It took several years to lean to deep throat and just when I thought I had it perfected my buddy moved and I met a guy with a much larger longer dick too a few months meeting once a week but finally I was able to swallow his entire shaft. My wife oh my I love giving her face. She is very sexual and she is a squirted. And I actually get turned on by the more she mains and by her squirting on my face and in my mouth. She also loves to suck my dick and she always swallows. She also has no idea I love to suck cock. Should I tell her?
Of course. If she cares for you, she's not going to think less of you, and she might like to watch (or more).
Oral sex is a wonderful feeling of closeness with your partner. It is the ultimate of heighten emotions for those people who enjoy this sexual act of love making. It can be most creative and fulfilling with your partner or partners. I do feel because of health factors one should be concerned and take precautions properly. I also feel just because you perform orally on one partner no law you have to perform on all your partners. For me oral sex is a very close personal experience that i most desire with a partner to give and receive.
For those that have both men and women give them blow jobs, who do you think does it better, guys or gals? I've been told that guys are better because they own the tool and know how to handle it.
