Ever tell partner about past same sex mutual masturbation experiences?

I was wondering if there is anyone out there who has told thier wife, husband, girlfriend or boyfriend about past "same sex" mutual masturbation experiences?

in my late teens I used to masturbate with a friend of mine. It was always when we did not have girlfriends. My wife has told me about streaking a few times with a female friend of hers but I have not told her about jacking off with my friend.

We are pretty wild and open in bed but I worry she may think it too "gay"

Anyone?

 

Has no one here had a mutual masturbation experience with a friend? I am just curious of how many who have told others or is it kept a secret?

 

Lol don't worry about it. Yes both my lover and I have had same sex mutual masturbation experiences, and we've both told each other about ours. I make it a point to tell her everything... when we were going into the relationship we cleared all of our psychological bullshit, all the things we are ashamed of in order to create a foundation of living truth to build our new life together on... I highly recommend it... if you and your wife and really right for each other and she truly loves you, she will understand. You have to accept each other even for the worst inside you. Forgiveness and compassion, my friend. Peace to you

 

No, not that I have one to tell. Not that I would if I had.

 

no, if i was gay i wouldn't tell my girlfriend.

 

I have told all my gf's when the time felt right.

80% thought it was cool...because I was 15 at the time.
I also like to eat my own cum and they are ok with that.

bottom line is, if you are in a good relationship they will understand unless you are suggesting you want to do it while in the relationship. They will peobably object to that.

 

Most of my partners have been aware of my Bisexuality, and that I have been sexually active accordingly, and many even found it a bit of a turn on.

The ones who weren't weren't aware of it came before I accepted it myself & eventually lost my Gay virginity. However, even those ones were fully aware of my adolescent sessions with my peers, but because of that being a perfectly normal thing, didn't really count.

 

No. My past is my past.

 

No, my wife doesn't know I have had sexual contact with other guys in the past - but that was a long time ago.

 

I'm sure my girlfriend could figure a way to become your divorce attorney if any of this should come to light.

C/S,
Rev J

 

My wife knows that in grade school and jr high school I had a few experiences masturbating with other boys and she told me that the thought of that was a turn on for her. She also admitted that her cousin that taught her about masturbating had done it together and to each other many times over a period of a few years until the discovered boys. I think this is more common than many would believe. Its no big deal. Also total honesty in a relationship is a liberating feeling

 

My gf told me about her and one of her gfs playing together. But only told me because her gf got caught. When in highschool one of her friends told her about her mother's vibrator. Its was one of the simple type that took 2 c size batteries. The woman was a single mother and worked, so when mother was at work, the girls used the vibrator. When the batteries wore down, they replaced them. Careful to dispose of the old ones. But one time just tossed the sales receipt, which described article, in the trash, and her mother found it. Questioned her daughter, about what the batteries were for. Daughter made up a lie, but was sure her mother knew. But for play stopped, and the mother never suspected, my gf was involved.

I wanted to hear all the details, but she claims it was only little touch and watching each other.

 

I mentioned to my wife the one and only involuntary experience I ever had. She seemed supportive although she does bring it up from time to time at the strangest of times, which somewhat makes me regret ever telling her. But we don't believe in secrets, so I gotta live with it

 

No way. People will use it against you when they're mad. I've jerked off about 4 friends and remember my experimental days in a warm light but I'm not telling anybody

 

Yes I have told my partner about all my past experiences . She knew from day one that I was very adventurous and a totall exhibitionest and we have also had a very varied sex life over the past 25 years .

 

I've told my wife that when I was 13 and 17 year old gave me a blowjob and I sucked on him , then he fucked me .
She knows that I love anal play and has fucked me several times.