Poll: Did you have sex with your spouse on your first date? Did it help or hinder?

The gorgeous woman who is now my wife was reluctant to even give me a 'goodnight hug' on our first date.
These days, twenty years on, we have the most incredible sex life. She's an amazing lover.
I'm not going to analyse this; I'm just a meagre bloke!

 

It wasn't with my spouse. Before I met him I was dating and a guy asked me on a date from work. I remember being extremely uneasy and he initiated more by the occasion ass and boob grab. Well I ended getting my vagina filled his cum on our first and only date. It was incredible. I even performed oral sex on him and we saw each other at work like nothing happened. But later in the month he told everyone he screwed me which was lousy

 

wow most women would be creeped out and end the date--- and he still got some ! guess its the guys who have no rules and more aggressive who get laid the most-- u just gotta go for it

 

At first I thought the guy is a pervert but my body definitely got the better off me because I normally would have regretted that but to this day I'm glad I gave in. The sex was unplanned and amazing. The only thing which upset me was he told colleagues that he screwed me and I was a total whore.

 

Technically I gave him oral sex before our first date...

 

We went at it on our first date!

 

No. I waited until our wedding night. Other men did have sex with her on their first date, and it didn't work out very well for them.

 

I had sex on the first date with my spouse. It turned out well so far. Been married over 5 years

 

We did not have sex on our first date. I was still fucking my mentor and soon to be ex at the time. It took all of the next week before my wife and I had sex and it wasn't on a date. We did it in the living room after breakfast at my place. We began fucking almost daily from that point on. Having sex did help sway me to ask for her hand in marriage.

 

Sounds like your on the right track! Good luck but then again looks like you don't need luck!

 

and many more years a head!

 

"meagre bloke" What the hell does that mean if I may can ask!

 

He misspelled "meager" meaning he is deficient in quantity or quality or maybe lacking fullness or richness. It could be he is scanty or inadequate in size. But I expect he is referring to his not understanding of his loves sex drive. Being he is from England they refer to themselves as "Blokes". Basically he is saying "I'm just a simple man."

 

Not sex, but I sucked him off on our first date

 

Interestingly, after the girl I lost my virginity with, I had another girlfriend for almost a year before I met my wife. With this "in-between girlfriend", we started heavy petting on the second date, but didn't actually fuck until about the sixth. After she lost her virginity to me, she was insatiable. She pretty much insisted that I fuck her at LEAST once a day, and anywhere from two to half-a-dozen times, if our schedules allowed it. Her orgasms were frequent and massive! She'd occasionally cum so hard that she'd pass out. She told me in no uncertain terms that whenever that happened, she wanted to wake up to the feel of me still thrusting inside her. It was cool fucking her when she passed out because she'd just be laying there like some inanimate posable fuck doll, but her pussy would still be rhythmically squeezing my cock while I continue to fuck her. It was like her orgasm decided to keep right on going after she passed out, but just confine itself to her pussy. Great times back then!

 

Your one intelligent guy! Thanks!

 

I have no spouse but generally on first date I like the to get to know each other, if conversation leads to having sex then so be. Sometimes the supprise can be really great especially if they have done some homework about me

 

You got that right!

 

No, we dated for a little while before we had sex

 

Nothing wrong with that!