I have a tremendous crush on a nurse,office assistant, whatever she is. Guessing she's Eastern European(?) Damn I can't wait til I see her next (February). I'm daydreaming about an unexpected office visit encounter. (a "long" lunch break for her at work!!") She is so nice and helpful, I think she likes me too. But, it is what it is. Nice to fantasize about though!!!!!!!!!!!
...do you like your job? ...do you need the money? You are playing with fire and must be very careful. If I were your best friend, I'd tell you forget her. There is only trouble in pursuing romance with a co-worker in today's modern work environment. Litterally, go find other women that you don't work with and do things with them. Be sexual with them. Forget she who can ruin your livelyhood anytime she chooses for no appearent logical reason. It gets worse. Other people who know about your relationship with her can file a complaint that gets you, or both of you, fired. (Why do some people need to stick their noses into others relationships? ...jealousy?) Other prople will invent things and spread their insanity through gossip. Still others will take the moral high ground and complain about you just make themselves feel good about their own lives. I don't get it. Should you choose to pursue her, good luck. I mean that sincerely. V/S
I have been through some of that already in life. But I don't work with this woman, I'm a patient there. Just something about her, that's all.
Oh my! I get it. I had some dental work done a few months ago and there was this woman who totally captured my imagination. I don't know what it is about some people who we just find so attractive; chemistry? ("Something in the way she moves attracts me like there is no other..." The Beatles) I imagine asking her to to go for a picnic on my boat at the local lake...good food and company on a beautiful day...just the opportunity to see where it might go. Then reality sets in because you know she woke up that morning and thought, "gee, I wish a Very Sexual man would ask me to go to the lake for the day." Ha,ha,ha! I'm getting cynical in my old age. The last ting I need is a woman who knows all my medical information, including SSN, to decide she's mad at me about something. Dating, or not dating in modern soceity. I was at a store yesterday and an older female sales rep asked a younger male sales rep to carry some equipment out to a female customer's car. He responded with, "why don't you do it? I couldn't help myself...I had to say it. I said, "...this is what the feminist movement has produced. I remember a time when a man would simply say, yes...and do it pleasantly with grace." I'm still a knuckle dragging neanderthal who opens doors and says please ...and thank you. Go figure. V/S ...oh, MM, good luck!
How I feel, isn't directly sexual. Though I'm sure it could go there! I just love talking to her. Looking at her. She's so...alluring...damn I can't describe it. Like I just want to be with her. Only her.
