Attack Of The Perpetually Offended

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=35-vtKP15yg

 

1989 weekend apparently

 

Yep, sure do. A woman in my circle of friends has been bullying me since August. I've held my head high and did nothing for months, only for the situation to get worse. My husband went to bat for me and now that woman is playing the victim.

I lost a lot of friends in the last few weeks. It's been really shitty. People fucking suck sometimes.

I put myself in therapy over this whole situation. In hindsight, I wish I had thought to go to therapy much earlier.

 

Sounds a bit like my life right now. No really.

If it weren't for the fact I normally deal with these situations by getting drunk and hating everyone I'd brush this off.

Full story maybe will come, right now I don't want to get in to the details.

But what the absolute fuck nonetheless. Should I just fuck off to India and disappear forever before my mum actually dies of worry?

It's been on the cards for a while, once you get that bug in your pants.

 

I'm having semi-light ptsd nightmare flashbacks and stuff now. All normal for a guy who has spent his whole life being rejected by everyone. If I had been female I think the two cunts would have just told me who is boss again and left me alone.

 

That's good, because I'm not Chinese. Wu Li is just my Rainbow Family name. Five "Bobs" just doesn't cut it with many hippies who will give you a unique name if you don't pick one yourself. Among 80 different things, Wu Li means "I clutch my ideas!"

Stupidity isn't a defense, its when the lights are on, but nobody is home. You may as well complain about your pet parakeet pecking away at its reflection in a mirror. They may look like they know what they're doing, but its all just reflexes, instinct, and bad habits. Once I saw a cop arguing with a crack hoe and just shake his head in amazement at how she would just rant and rave nonstop about anything he said. I'm sure there must have been something vaguely human still inside her head but, you'd be hard pressed to prove it. Just a bundle of bad habits and attitude.

 

Big hugs..I know what that shit feels like!
Bullies get their own meds eventually, you will feel better when you can sit back, and watch them fall! Hang in there!

 

Walker, your an ok bloke, you have a great sense of humour!
Your so loved!

 

I hear you bro, and I know you're not Chinese.

Peace, love and rainbows I said. You stand accused of homophobia...

I'm kid you not. Me?

No-one who knows me my entire life would accuse me of that, including all the lgbt people I have been friends with my entire life

And here I am, am I a hater?

Maybe I'm a bit gay myself and would prefer to keep it to myself, but now I'm forced to out myself as a bisexual to the world, or at least the courts.

In the village. Royston fucking Vasey!

 

Produce your gay friends as witnesses!

 

That's what I intend to do, but.

 

Hire them..

 

This still doesn't stop me wondering why I should bother?

I know gay people who used to suck the dicks of men who owned the police.

Somewhere in a stable though

 

You don't, but get them ready for the right moment, it's brilliant!

I have a couple of gay friends, male, when they are in town I go have lunch with them and share a bottle of wine, or two..
An X boyfriend was jealous as hell..never understood that tbh..

 

I'm phobic of anyone who is sexual, not just gays. They are the reason the world is the mess it is today! I never drink water either unless its boiled because fish make love in it and they're messier than people!

 

You have no idea how old I am do you?

 

Yeah, the increasingly PC culture is getting rough. I like to think of myself as a fairly respectful person, and I can't keep track of all of the "offensive" things out there anymore. It's important to honor people's boundaries, but when they get unreasonable and malicious about it, or their right not to have their feelings hurt encroaches upon your right to free speech, there is a problem.

 

So are you actually facing a hate crime charge or did you just piss someone off?

Free speech laws dont protect us from reactionary responses to our speech, but i think we have a huge problem as a culture when we can face criminal charges for our words (well, excepting threats of violence of course)

 

Just feel it. Sometimes we can't fix things, even though we want to really badly. All we can do is sit in them for a while. So just feel it. Let it be. Try not to let yourself become hard from it. And start to think about what your core values are as a person, and focus on communication that stems from your core values. There are always diamonds in a pile of shit.

Also, if you can afford to talk to a counselor, I highly suggest it. Even if it is just for a few sessions, it will help you to understand why you react to certain situations and help put things into perspective.

Feel free to send me a PM if you want to talk. I am usually pretty close to a screen at all times. I also don't want you to feel like you are alone in this.

 

But I don't want to watch anyone fall. I don't want people to hurt, regardless of how they have treated me.