Guys, what kind of situation this really is? I've slept with a guy only once and it was over a year ago. We really had amazing connection, not only sexual. But we never saw each other after. But we keep in contact every few months or so. He doesn't talk about himself at all when I ask. So I talk about myself and he seems interested and always helps and supports me. We never talk about sex. I sometimes flirt very little and friendly. He never. What do you think he thinks of me and what kind of a "relationship" we actually have? I think of him as a friend I never see. Does it sound he is just keeping me in the line, or what he might think of me? I won't ask him this. That's ridiculous after so much time to discuss us because we were never a couple. I would like to know his motives though. Has anything like this happened to you?
ohno! He's the only person who can answer this question. Why wouldn't you ask him? ...at the very least, he likes you, or he wouldn't contact you. Stop making stuff up in your head and ask him...then repot back. I too would like to know now that you have brought it up. Good Luck! Cheers! VS
Seven years ago, while going through a divorce, I met a woman while in Florida and had a one night stand. We text or call once a month or so since then, catching up on our kids growing up, what's up in our business lives, and mostly, what's going on between the NY Mets and the ATL Braves. My GF knows about her and our history so it's not a sneaky relationship, and we've never talked about trying to meet up again. She's just a great person and this is where our one night stand went. I don't regret anything about it, and even though i'll probably never see her again, I consider her a friend.
I only had two ex girlfriends contact me 40 years later. One to apologize for cheating on me since her life did not go well for her. The other was trying to get me to help her financially since she was a drug addicted prostitute turned stripper who needed money to stay with her daughter in another State to help her kick her Crack addiction. She offered all kinds of benefits if I helped her out but I am not stupid. I had 30 sex partners. I have moved 13 times so no one could keep track of me. One time in Philadelphia I ran into an old one night stand who slapped me in the face very hard and said that was for using her and then never calling her back.
