Almost 23 And I Have Never Had Sex

nah, id advise against this. dating sites are only good for killing time if you're board

op, work on your career, make a shit-ton of money. buy lots of hookers and booze. get some sugarbabies, etc., and don't look back

 

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Actually, studies have shown that people tend to do this anyway.

 

omg I'll second you.
but at least you're 23 - I am going to be 26 and have the same problem.

 

I kinda just want it gone by 25 tbh lol, seems like a good benchmark

 

I guess it's just me. I think sex is overrated.

 

i hope not

 

Love yourself first, masturbate a lot. Masturbation is also good to combat depression. I am all for self gratification. . Get out and join interest groups. Join a ballroom dancing class for fun or salsa dancing, anything where you know you will have to interact, and even if it doesn't work out you have improved social skills. Make more friends, one girl might not like you as anything but as a friend, But they have friends. Joining a group that interests you and allows you to meet people takes some pressure off and makes things more casual.

 

I agree with everything except jerking off, i don't do it anymore because #1 i felt bad watching porn and #2 it just made me more depressed

Also if i am trying to get laid wouldnt jerking off hinder my efforts?

 

You're depressed? Eat a hamburger. Go jogging. Get together with friends. Really, you can survive without sex and trust me, you'll get some someday.

 

someday

lol no, seriously, thanks. it's good to find ways to stay busy

 

it is overrated, just because nothing could live up to the hype that sex gets. it's still pretty fucking amazing though.

 

wishing you the best of luck then

 

thanks haha. i'm not holding my breath lol

 

Well here is a link to the book I mentioned. You can get the book or the audio book is also available, I know a guy who got it and swears by it, I also bought it for a female friend of mine... she agreed it would work on her too.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Game:_Penetrating_the_Secret_Society_of_Pickup_Artists

But still I think joining something... a sport even... something just simple like badminton can get you in groups and socializing. Maybe join it with another friend. .

 

Thanks. I have two questions for you.

1) How old are you, and 2) do you think I am ugly? (as in too ugly to bone / unfuckable?)

 

Lol. Well no you are not to ugly, but that has little to do with whether you are fuckable. Lol. You are fucksble but we won't be fucking. ... . as for age, too old for you. . Never say my number. I stopped saying when I turned 30

 

I know a handful of people who have gotten married or are in committed relationships with folks they met online. I know this doesn't prove anything, but according to Pew research about 5% of people in committed relationships met their significant other online. 5% might not seem like a lot--but that is 16,000,000 people (based on USA population)! That certainly isn't nothing .

And OP, if you were really determined to lose your virginity, it is fairly common to find hook ups on dating sites and apps. That could be a possible route to explore. But then again, what's the rush? You're 23, not 53.

 

idk what that means lol

 

23 is young but not exactly a spring chicken either. Tinder has proved unsuccessful for me