Almost 23 And I Have Never Had Sex

Being 23 and a virgin does not have to be an issue. Being horny and never getting any may become an issue. This is not age related me thinks (I felt like OP at age 16 as well Probably because my friends got layed around that time and were not subtile about it ). If everybody was honest about being a virgin you would see a 23 year old virgin is not as uncommon or weird as most people make it out to be.

 

Thanks lol, but there is a huge difference at 23 than 16 and it makes it less excusable for me.

The desire for sex is very strong and i struggle with waiting for a relationship vs just hooking up

 

No, the huge difference is between your ears and the pressure other people place on it. I felt the pressure you feel now at age 16. It is only a big deal because you're horny and want to get laid. It's not really the age. The main reason people are concerned about such a number is because overall people are being dicks when you still have your virginity in your twenties.

 

They are, and the longer it goes on the more it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, I want to have sex so much but i want it to be under good circumstances and intentions ideally, and not so forced, but that takes a lot more effort and patience.

I've gotten made fun of for being a virgin, i don't make the stupid mistake of telling people anymore but even still i have had people made fun of me because i apparently look like a virgin

 

Insecurity sucks...

 

Do you think my appearance is a big thing preventing sex right now

 

Didn't see your pic. But I suspect your mindset and insecurities play at least as big of a role.

 

A lot of people think i am younger than i am, too young and ugly looking for a lot of girls my age it seems

 

No, don't think your appearance is the big thing preventing sex for you.

 

I sometimes wonder lol. I'm only 5'7", can't grow much facial hair and i'm fairly average looking

 

How you feel and act upon that might be a bigger thing. I've seen much uglier guys have no issue with attracting a partner. And no, they weren't all rich and powerful lol (just being ahead of Vanilla Gorilla with that one )

 

I'm at a disadvantage if i can't emotionally arm myself to brush off rejection. Also if i become jaded or bitter. As hard as it can be to avoid, that will not help me either

 

Not just you. The good news is you're not special in that regard.

 

I'll probably find someone but maybe not when and how i think

 

This statement implies that women are inherently disgusted by the male form.

This confirms my theory that life sucks and is a load of garbage.

Bill Nye's idea of a "utopia" is everyone riding bicylcles...What a joke.

You're 23 and still a virgin? It's a sign and symptom of the modern times we are stuck in. People will look back on this era and call it an age of barbarism and perdition. How many carpet bombs and angry virgins till people wake up and realize that this age is not a utopia, people are not happy, and this is not an enlightened age of civilization?

My advice...don't waste your money on a hooker. If it ain't love, it ain't worth it.

 

If you know what you want and what is restricting you from getting there you're already halfway there. But where it comes to losing insecurities and gaining confidence in yourself it is of course easier said than done... I know when people told me the same shit and I thought yeah I believe you but how the fuck do I get there. Lame: it just took time and growing up in my case

 

I'd hook up but i would never, ever buy a hooker. yuck

It is just growing up. It makes it all irrelevant, one way or another

 

Well, your a tad young for me, but i sure didn't see anything wrong with you!
Only thing i would say, is your not so confident, maybe you need help with that?

NO, i was replying to the person that quoted my previous quote out of context!

Just remember, you have time on your side, there is no right age!

 

How old are you lol? i hope to God you are not in your 20s because the too young comment would be pretty damn depressing lol