Talk to people and get to know people, and share what you think is important to others instead of relying on fancy and completely nonsense computer algorithms, sterile fields in online app and website profiles to find our 'soul mate' (or for the realists among us, your long term partner(s), platonic cuddle muffins, friends etc) Disclaimer: The sterile fields in hipforums profiles are meant as a guide, and you can add anything you like in the bigger, more fascinating fields, including that your soulmate must be a pretty, 6 foot 2 morally incorruptible lawyer from Uzbekistan.