I'm married and cock-curious. I have seen several posts here about this - only wanting to suck a hard cock - not anything else. Well, my story goes -- I tried it once, and was disappointed. So I am curious as to your thoughts on my condition.... The only time I sucked a cock was after drinking and cruising around a local place where I heard that guys sometimes go. So I met this guy and we visited for a long time, before we just drove to an isolated spot and talked some more. After a while I felt the signals were right - and I asked if I could suck his cock. I told him no kissing or anything, and then I just dropped and opened his fly. His dick was not the most attractive - but I was willing to give it a go. He was hairy - somewhat smelly - and I hate to say that I was not really very attracted to it. In the end he also went down on me and we both finished up ourselves. In reflection - I think I should have suggested mutual masturbation before we did anything else. I'm not a pude or anything, but if I am going to do it - I want to enjoy it! Smell and pubic hair are a major turn off for me. So my question is - is this just me? Is everyone else ok with these things? How should I try again with a different partner? It's been over a decade, and I have never seen him again - which is ideal. I'd like to find that kind of hook up again. What about glory holes? Are they real? Need advice.
You had a bad experience the first time because when you realized that the smell and pubic hair on the guy was a turn off but you still went ahead with it even though you knew it would turn out bad. You should have stopped as soon as you didn't like it and tried again when you found something you were comfortable with. It sounds like you really want to enjoy the experience but it's up to you to make it happen. That's what's wrong with isolated spots with someone you don't really know, you don't have access to soap and water and you're afraid to say anything honest.
Sometimes the stories of playing leave out the basics. They talk about the sexual act but leave out some of the details that make it special. There is nothing like playing with a super clean shaved cock. We all need to pay attention and make sure the situation is right along with being with the right person.
Yes Gloryholes are real, butt not always easy to find unless you go to a sex/swinger club. For your next time I'd suggest to find someone and just be straight up with them, okus planning a head (no pun intended) can go along way and save a lot of trouble.
I wouldn't enjoy a smelly hairy cock either, so give it another try. I prefer shaved or neatly trimmed cocks for just this reason.
