Do other men stuggle with being a little to feminine i know you cant be too masculine for a man but i often feel more feminine in alot of different ways yet i am a man and still masculine in alot of ways but more feminine than masculine, can anyone relate, is this an issue or more of a inner choice that i cant come to terms with. Maybe i should have been gay idk
I prefer thongs over any other underwear, my body hair groses me out, i sit down to go to the bathroom, im submissive in the bedroom, very touchy feely, and for some reason i desire to be the woman in a relationship im sure there is more but thats what i can think of off the top of my head
For me i am a perfectionist and have this inner drive to complete things so i guess i have to figure out how to settle on having being both feminine and manly in different ways
I mean, I sit down to take a leak too, but that doesn't necessarily mean you're feminine. I do that because that way it's more sanitary. When you urinate into the toilet bowl from the standing position, urine is actually slashed outward and onto the side walls and floor. But we can't really see this phenomenon with a naked eye. It's the same principle as those health specialists recommending that you close the outer lid then flush the toilet when you have a stomach flu that is contagious. I can also be touch-y feel-y, I cry when watching movies and stuff a lot, and I like taking care of my hair. But I also have a bit of an alpha personality in that I don't like being perceived as inferior to my partner. Good thing my girlfriend is submissive, but then I don't really consider myself as that much of a "dom" either. I suppose I'm a gentle dom, lol.
I think this is something that all men go through and it’s just who we are. Don’t worry and don’t try to fight it either, just relax and be okay with yourself!
Sensitivity in men, isn't Femaninity..... it's called compassion and empathy. Being cold blooded, narcissistic and greedy is Femaninity .
Maybe buy some panties online. That's what I do/did. I just started to actually going to the store and buy feminine underwear or a cute skirt. It feels weird and so good at the same time. I thought people would be staring at me like WTF!? but they don't... Even the cashier. They just ring it up and on me way. Usually I try for a female cashier. Girl's clothes are just so much more comfortable; I just can't wear them in public.
There's nothing wrong with femininity because there's nothing wrong with being female. Most of what we call "masculinity" are actually heteronormative societally imposed bullshit gender roles propping up a violent and misogynistic primitive and outdated chauvinistic hegemony. Instead of fretting about whether or not you're a quart low in masculinity, why not contemplate how egocentric, selfish, and self-centered you are, and do something about it? Being more masculine doesn't make you a better person, but being more empathetic and compassionate will.
