Boyfriend came out as Bi

Don't feel horrible about it. It was unexpected and tbh most women would leave there man for something like that

 

I gotta tell you....my wife was the first person I was ever able to be open with about my fantasies. She listened to them, and then told me she wasn’t interested to hear about them. That was a little bit of a turn off...because I was hoping it might turn her on. So then she told me once that if we wanted to have a threesome ...and we made it all about her first, then she would leave and I could do whatever I wanted. That was also a turn off. If anything I would want to do it with her. The dude is not the fantasy. It’s his cock....period. It is exciting to give a bj. The idea of doing it with her would be super hot to me. Like kissing and tonguing his shaft and taking turns deep throating it. And then maybe fucking her while I was getting fucked. Sounds pretty exciting to me but she isn’t into it. I accept that she isn’t in to it. I just wish she would be. I’m open to endulging any fantasy she had and have already completed one for her. I don’t think it would be as much fun if she told me to find and do whatever on my own. To me, this is part of me I want to share with her...she likes cock too so I mean she gets to have extra too. Lol

 

Well yeah i see your point there! Lol!
I did sit and listen to him talk to me about each of the four guys he was with and it actually helped because it made me realise that it is just a fantasy or as he described it 'a bonus' because he gets everything he needs from me anyway. He hates giving blow jobs or anything other than a cock up thr bum which really is no harm. We agreed that if a threesome happens, then we will both be there the whole time. He wants to go down on me while being fucked which sounds pretty hot but im still a bit nervy not completely because of him, but my own issues too.
Im sorry your wife isnt prepared to at least try for you..

 

I always had an idea he maybe had done something like that and he jumped at the chance to try pegging so i should have expected it. I love him too much to leave him.. and i love him more for trusting me with it.

 

Yeah, I don’t think it’s that she’s not ready....she Doesn’t find it sexy. I think she is attractive to my masculinity and she sees getting fucked as a submissive behavior or feminine. It’s a bummer because all it really is the feeling it gives and it’s hot knowing someone is using me to get off

 

You see i do find it sexy and he has talked about it while we've been having sex and it does turn me on but im wondering how i would feel in reality. He said that if we do a mmf threesome and i feel uncomfortable at any point, then we will stop and it wont be in our house - it will at a hotel. We probably will do it but im so scared it could ruin what we have. Not that i think he will 'turn gay' or whatever, just he might want to do it a lot more often..

Yeah he's the same - "i just love the feeling of cock in my bum" is what he said.

 

Well... don’t kid yourself.... if you eventually decide to do it.... it will become a part of your life together. He will probably slide to wanting it from time to time. I go periods of not thinking about it at all...and then all of the sudden I’m whipping out the dildos...sucking one and fucking the other while I jack my cock. I cum really hard and then I feel sort of unfulfilled. I feel bad that I want this...and I feel bad that it’s something I can’t have. If you truly love him....love ALL of him. Acceptance is a beautiful and special thing. He belongs to you...and wants to share this with you...it’s a special gift to be able to give him. If my wife gave me that gift, I would definitely honor her for her gift of selflessness....additionally although she is not verbal about her fantasies that much...I’d entertain anything she wanted

 

You shouldnt feel bad for wanting it..thats just tje way you are i do love all of him and i have told him its a possibility in the future, just not yet and hes ok with that.. he hasnt done anything like that since nearly a year before he met me. Thats when he tried topping but couldnt stay hard. I asked him if uta just a cock in the bum you like then why did you try thay? He said he had tried everything else..why not rhat but he just didnt like the thought of it. Apparently a mans bum and a womans are very different..

 

For sure. Although my wife enjoys anal and DP

 

Im not a big fan of anal myself but he is bigger than i've had before. DP is gooood though which is strange..

 

How big is he?

 

7 inches..and hes quite thick as well so it can be a bit painful. He can handle anal better than i can lol

 

Being BI is more common than you might think. Think about your own thoughts you are probably bi to a certain extent.