Can A Good Sex Life And Masturbation Coexist For Couples?

Agree with you, she pretty much only liked intercourse, and I don’t like intercourse, I did like oral sex but it was a big production for her to do oral, she would have to take a bath, I would suggest us showering together but she didn’t like that, half the time she it was too much trouble for her to want to take a bath, so then we might do intercourse which bored me and never does anything for me. I would have loved for us to masturbate together or experiment sexually but I knew better to keep my mouth shut, so I therefore would masturbate fairly regular.

 

As soon as she denied showering together she's got to go

 

My first marriage of 22 years had been no mutual masturbation however my second is totally different, we are in our 50's and love sex! I had always thought my wife can masturbate while I watch and help as she has amazing orgasms especially if I finger fuck her while she does herself. For myself I was never that interested in masturbating together until recently as the wife has some pain while having intercourse these days
But we have started to masturbate together and it's fantastic! Love when I wait until she finishes and she always enjoys making me explode, her mouth is fantastic. When we do have intercourse it's even better now, I can never wait and I get all eager

 

Perhaps the OP question should be "can a happy sex life for BOTH exist WITHOUT it?

 

Since I am OP,
Sure, I think a happy sex life can exist without masturbation. However, as we age and frequency of intercourse declines. It is very important for men to masturbate routinely to keep their prostate healthy. For women, masturbation releases endorphins and increases the blood flow to the clitoris. Which by the way the clitoris never grows old. It keeps its youth. We do both intercourse and masturbation. Intercourse for intimacy and maturbation for our health. Sometimes, I pull out and finish blowing my load by masturbating. She will finish by rubbing it out with two fingers inserted.

 

My husband and I have mutual masturbation nights every once in awhile. We prefer intercourse or oral but sometimes we’re both lazy or sometimes we’ll start talking about porn and end up watching it while masturbating together.

He doesn’t normally masturbate on his own. I have a very high sex drive and he can barely keep up as it is. I masturbate on my own 1-2 times a day.

 

Well at least you still have intercourse regularly. The point is to get that cum release. Man and women by what ever means possible.
We love intercourse first, but masturbation is needed. Tell him it for his health and him you love to watch. Maybe even provide hand. Just sayin.

 

I think we are doing fine.
We have sex 5-8 times a week. By sex, I really mean that he orgasms that many times. It might be from intercourse or oral sex or handjobs. He just doesn’t masturbate himself because I’m always wanting to participate.