Did the cutlery, glasses and mugs, and plates and bowls. Haven't done the pans yet, but two out of three ain't bad...
I hate having to stack plates like that.. Get a drainer for them to stand up in! Good job not letting your phobia beat you : D
We don't keep track of who did them last, but my girlfriend and I basically take turns washing up. If we're cooking we wash prep dishes as we cook, but the pot/pan/whatever the food's in and the plates we eat on are washed right after we're finished eating. I like things neat and put away lol
Washing up is usually left to me. I can get her to stack the dishwasher, but... it's a bit unorganised no matter how many times I tell her what trays are designed for what. Furthermore, I asked her to throw the laundry in the washing machine. She did this but she also proceeded to unbutton all of my flannelette shirts. Who does this?? They're like tents to try and hang up. I got so frustrated with it.