Straight and married, but cock curious...

If she is open to it, I agree, don't do it behind her back. She has to feel ,safe and still loved as you experiment.

 

I am exactly where OP is. MWM to a great gal other than sex life, which has disappeared and I'm reduced to masturbation for pleasure - and as often as not, I fantasize about having sex with another man. I've never indulged the desire, but it's very strong. I'd love to meet a nice, calm, str8-acting guy, get to know him a bit through some convo, and then head up to his or my hotel room for a few hours, where we wallow naked in exploring everything, enjoying turning each other into a couple of lust-crazed bulls. Then we get dressed, trade some heartfelt thank-yous, and get on with our lives. Jeez, do I ever need this. I probably will never bring myself to go through with it, but it's fun to talk with other guys (anonymously online) about the urge.

 

I love how you think man. It should be explored.

 

I am in the same boat. Happily married man who loves my wife. I have never so much as touched another man in any sexual way but as I get older (last 12 months) have had the urge to see what is like to suck a cock and have mine sucked. Ideally it would be in a threesome but that won’t happen

 

I hear ya man. I hope U can find someone soon

 

I always find it interesting to try and define normal in this context.

 

Normal or not, straight with gay tendency or whatever label is necessary for those hung up on labels, I find cocks just one more of life's sexy pastimes.

 

Act on that curiosity, even if it it's jerk off watching each other, or jerking each other off