while loving someone and being loved is def important it's not the only thing that matters in life. I think making it the only thing that matters in your life would make you pretty dull to the person who's love you seek.
Er, well, about the original question... I "give it up" when it feels right for me. I've only been with two people... I waited five months with the first, and three days with the last. Admittedly, the last relationship was lust-based (for both of us) but I never felt bad about how fast we moved. Depends a lot on the dynamics between the couples ehheeheee... I like being dark and evil... er So..... you're analyzing women based on their physical appearances - their motivating factors and the way they feel about men/sex in general. How is that not shallow? How does that respect women, like you always preach that you do?
Well, I waited about a month to have sex with the guy I'm with now. whne it was right, it was right. If I were to become single now it would depend. I might hook up with a guy at a festival and fuck in a tent and kick him out in the morning. Only once or twice though. It's a little fantasy of mine. Other than that if I were trying to find a relationship, I would get to know them and wait until it felt right.
amen sister.....can i be that guy and dont worry about kicking me out. ill leave after im done......bang bang bang bang
Do it all the time, day and night, right or wrong! Sex is beautiful if your in love, fun when you aren't. Never have regrets. It's your choice. If you think it may be wrong for you at the time, and you may wake up regretting it, then don't do it. If you do, that's your mistake. It doesn't make it wrong to have sex without love, it makes you stupid for doing something you aren't happy with.
since i wouldn't go on a date without knowing someone pretty damned well, the first date was not uncommon. and that performance tended to influence whether or not i'd go out with him the next time he called. and then there were a few friendly souls i just fucked because i needed to 'release the demons.'
sex on the first date... Rather not... but.... i have.... :& I rather get to know the person. i would prefur to love that person... I cant say that I have ever loved anyone that I had sex with... To me love is alot deeper then just meeting a person.. and eventually sleeping with them... I hate how comercial sex is these days... yet I thrive on it... I dont understand how you can love someone after only just meeting them...I cant say I believe in love at first site... is that the concept now, when it comes to sex...↕↕↕??? Dave: "I Love you" Suzy: "I love you too" Dave: "Spread your legs, Just take it" Suzy: "Give It to me, I want you" then yea... its over... o' wee ha!... Love?? Yea right