virginity

Im a virgin. Its important. But Im not a prude or a christian. Ok, well maybe a bit of a prude. Actually, I think it is my unreasonably high expectations. LOL. Fun Fun!

 

Not really, the age didn't matter to me as long as i was comfortable with the guy and in love, and ready. I lost my virginity age 19 and i don't regret it one bit, it was great

 

Virginity is crucial, that's why I tell every woman that I have sex with that she is taking my virginity. I like to make a girl feel special

 

*blinks* Really don't know how to feel about that booshnoogs. I mean, the intent seems nice enough, but it really sounds like a line, so you can make *yourself* feel better, in a typically horn dog man kind of way.

For me virginity was important. When I was horny enough as a teenager I was almost willing to give it to anyone, but something always stopped me. I just wanted it to be great. (It didn't help that my first kiss was with a man whore, (was making out with one of my friends in the same night.) and the second guy I kissed, (mostly because I was trying to stop crushing on a guy who had a girlfriend) turned out to have a girlfriend.

I hadn't had a good track record to start with. So I had to wait for someone who loved me before I took a larger plunge like sex, (I felt gross enough about myself with something as small as a kiss) and I got him! He practically worships me *beams* I love it!!! I can't even imagine having sex with a random person. Kind of scares me. Only someone I have feelings for and I know has feelings for me.

 

it was never important to me, and still isnt. you can have self-respect but still take risks sometimes. i like sex.

 

I'm not religious in the christian sense, so No it wasn't that important to me.

 

it was important to me
but it was stolen

then I had sex carelessly because it was gone and I was tainted

now I am better and it just doesn't matter anymore.
I like sex and I have reasonable standards now.

 

I only saw it as something religious folks cared about also, and I'm not religious. Only later I heard from more religious friends & others, like here, that many non-religious people also cared a lot about it... but learning that still doesn't make a difference for me personally, in how I feel about it.

 

I am past 30 who has been one since childbirth. Some closest to myself consider yours truly as a Str8-But-Not-Narrow (or a Str8-Posing-As-?Gay).

 

I can't imagine ever wanting to have sex after childbirth

how long does it take to heal down there?

 

im still a virgin it is kinda important to me , like i had the chance .. but i never did , i still have my whiole life ahead of me , why lose it so fast .. wel thats my opinion .. but i am only 15 lol

 

Nobody's a virgin... Bush screwed us all, and that is that.

 

aye thats true , even tho i dont live in america lol , i live in ireland , bush is a dickhead!!

 

I am a Christian, but even if I wasn't, I would still be a virgin. I think that is one of the most precious gifts we are given. I never wish that I wasn't a virgin. I would tell anyone to hold on to it until they are 100% sure and stable enough to handle the consequences if something happened.

 

one problem with placing too much value on your virginity is the unconscious expectation that others will as well.

 

not important to me. although i havent lost it yet so..

 

yeah i was imporant to me

 

It was very important for me, important enough so that I waited until I found someone I truly loved and was sure he truly loved me. And True love lasts a lifetime. We still love each other, and he says he loves me more each passing day. I didnt "expect" so much out of sex but I expected a lot out of my of my partner. He ceases to amaze me with his patience with me, loyalty to me, and the more I am with him the more I love him. I think we have this healthy relationship because we BOTH waited until we found the right person. We've been together nearly 5 years and it was 3 years ago since we first made love.

 

my virginity was important to me. It was my "innocence" my childhood and all. All that was taken away from me when I was 11 yrs and when I was 15yrs old.

 

Virginity for my friend is a 'grey area' for her, and come to think about it, it's the same for me too....