Older men

Discussion in 'True Love' started by Libbygrable87, Feb 10, 2019.

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  1. soulcompromise

    soulcompromise Member Lifetime Supporter

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    They're married mostly I think. The girls at school are considerably younger; in their twenties. I don't really know of a good way to put myself out there for single women in their 30s and 40s, other than like a dating site...

    And I'm actually opposed to anything beyond hooking up to be honest. I hate the idea of more financial responsibility. I can just see myself reorganizing my monthly expenditures around fucking dating! lmao
     
  2. Meliai

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    I think this might be a bit of a myth though

    Particularly if you're using this forum for your sample size - the men who come here to complain about lack of sex have often been married a long time, kids, they probably let the spark die a long time ago, the lack of sex likely comes from neglect and boredom with each other and a general weariness in life rather than anything lacking with the wife's sex drive

    And i've seen plenty of middle aged women come through here over the years to complain about their husbands lack of a sex drive too

    And actually i've read before that men peak sexually at age 18 and women at age 30. Which makes sense. I'm 34 and know more about what I want sexually now than I did when I was 20.
     
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  3. Meliai

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    Oh, but to be on topic. I sometimes find older men attractive but only in an admire them from afar kinda way, not any kind of real sexual attraction
     
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  4. drumminmama

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    I’m dating a man 16 years my senior. I cannot say that in general, I’m attracted to men his age, I’m historically the 4-9 year gap sort, but this man?
    Wowzers.
    He’s a couple buddies who are also attractive, one is in his early 70s, and he’s handsome in an adorable way.

    I like long hair, and I’m fine with it being silvery white.
     
  5. Libbygrable87

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    I am shocked no one commented on about Roger Waters and stuff. Roger Waters is not what I would call saintly. Ask David Gilmour, old band members and his ex-wives that. No remember Pros and Cons of Hitch Hiking which was a great album I admit or the fact he spat on a fan in 1977.
     
  6. If it helps, I think you should be banned for finding Harvey Weinstein sexually attractive.
     
  7. Libbygrable87

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    You do why thank you I am glad I live in a free country and what rule did I break? Are you the mod?
     
  8. I'm as good as a moderator around here. I have that much clout. Best watch your step.

    Anyways, I'm thirty-eight and have all but given up on love and romance. I've been single for a decade now. The available girls around my age aren't attractive to me. Not because they're not young...I just don't seem to see any that are very attractive. I'm not attractive, either, so it all works out. I think another thing hindering my progress is that I just don't care all that much. The more I see of women, the more disgusted I am by them. I mean, for Christ's sake, Harvey Weinstein? They're all so materialistic, too, and shallow. I don't think love is for me.
     
  9. Libbygrable87

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    ok have me banned I didn't do a thing but disagree grow up its not my problem about your love life so fuck off
     
  10. Well you aren't winning any points with me. The reason I'm so well-respected around here and why my opinion of people carries so much weight is partially because I'm so patient, though. So I will give you a chance to make it up to me. I usually don't ask that someone be banned for at least a few months of getting to know them. But if you don't shape up, mark my words, you're outta here.
     
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  11. Libbygrable87

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  12. You will respect me, young lady, or you can just get out now.
     
  13. tumbling.dice

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    You're full of shit neon. Leave her alone you miserable fucker.
     
  14. new Athenian

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    Excepting that I have first hand knowledge learned from years of family convers
    I'll generally agree with you here while not knowing specifics of your allegation against Waters and say it goes without saying most everybody who is in show business is a sleazebag as far as I can tell, not a gentleman nor lady among the bunch IMO.
     
  15. Shut the fuck up tumbling dice you anal twat.
     
  16. Irminsul

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  17. Vanilla Gorilla

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    Dont worry, he's just messing around

    Thats actually a picture of him in his avatar, so , you know, grain of salt
     
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  19. Libbygrable87

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    I get it know. I think its strange when people brag about themselves.
     
  20. new Athenian

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    It is strange because people who do that must constantly reassure themselves of their own importance thus actually enjoy listening to their own voices.
     
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