Have your sexual desires/preferences morphed over the years?

This thread is obviously directed at those of you who have at least a few years of adulthood behind you.

I spent a bit of time today thinking about my early sexually-active years versus where I am today. Quite the change, to say the least.

Many years ago I'd have to say that I was really possessive and jealous in my relationships....and more often than not, miserable.

Today? Jealousy never rears its ugly head and I'm as happy as I've ever been with my relationships, accepting just about whatever gets thrown my way.

You guys?

 

Yes, my sexual desires have increased a lot more over the last few years too.
I have incorparated a few sextoys in to our sex life (which we had never even considered trying any types of before) - some with great benefits, others with less.
I use types I bought for either myself or those for my wife's enjoyments or for both of us. Our sex positions have also varied more between either experimenting with angles or improving on them for one reason or another. It makes it even more enjoyable if we find a technique we both find a great turn on.
This website has helped me find out more tips of what I hadn't tried sexually before & has increased my sex drive in more ways than one. I like trying more sexually adventurous things than I use to & get a lot more enjoyment out of some of them than I had ever imagined I could. So this has been a great benefit with others sharing their experiences & ideas on here.
I should have found this website sooner!

 

Age, besides causing wrinkles, slight incontinence, saggy boobs and impending menopause also brings a bit of wisdom.
The major thing being that none of us are perfect - esp yours truly.

I know I will never meet Prince (or Princess) Charming - I know I will never be married.
However I know that in the next years, such sexual partners that I have before whatever conks out in that respect actually conks will be appreciative of all i bring to their lives - as I will be of theirs.
I appreciate that as I have matured my muddled sexuality is settling and that my bi-ness is now almost completely so female orientated, that the likelihood of me ever again having intercourse with a real penis is diminishing to near zero, ..... well, that's just one of those wonderful stages of life.

Yes, we do change as life progresses, but certainly it's not something to be wary of: rather, embrace it!

 

You could say that they have changed over the years..

back in the day (LOL) I was just trying to get laid and had no real standards or limitations..

However over the years you could say that my tastes have changed.. some things have mellowed where as some have gotten down right perverted.

 

My outlook has definitely changed. In HS I was extremely homophobic. I just couldn't understand. A few years ago my wife ran across an ad for a prostate massager and asked me what I thought. I was intrigued so I bought one. the first one was wayyyy too big. LOL. After a few purchases, I finally ran across the Aneros Products. I purchased the Vice. I slipped it in and turned on the vibe with her lying beside me. Pretty soon I started to feel sensations all over my body that I had never felt before. Pretty soon I started bucking and panting. My body began exploding in internal orgasms. My cock stiffened like a rigid pipe and I had the most powerful ejaculation of my lifetime ! I was shocked and so was my wife. It is now something I enjoy on a regular basis and would have never entertained it in my early years. I have no desire to be with a guy but I feel sorry for guys who are too homophobic to try this because they are missing out on the orgasm of a lifetime !

 

when younger did it to be popular with friends but now do it for self enjoyment and attaining a high standard of living by good reputation

 

I’ve definitely become better at advocating for myself

 

I think I have also learned to take the time to enjoy it a well.

 

although a Virgin, I do have fetishes...
I used to really really want really passionate deep sex. now I want really rough hardcore sex. basically rape

 

Jealousy was a problem early in my sex life, but it died out quickly after we married. My focus the at first was on my own satisfaction, but that changed to my getting enjoyment and satisfaction from satisfying my lover's desires. Over the years, foreplay has become a longer and more enjoyable process, also.

 

Definitely. There are several things that I used to not be into at all that are now big turn ons for me.
Part of it is how active my sex drive is. When I first started having sex, my drive was really high and eventually I started being curious about different kinks (bondage, role play, threesomes).
Then I was on birth control that lowered my drive and all my kinks went away. I was only interested in “regular” sex.
Then I was on a different birth control that completely killed my drive and I could barely force myself to do it and when I did I felt like crying (that was a bad year).

And now I’m off birth control and my drive is ridiculously high again and suddenly I’m back to wanting kinky stuff. Even more so than when I was younger.

 

I’m 52 now. When I was about 45, all of the sudden I became aware of the sensitivity of my nipples. My wife now incorporates quite some time into aggressive nipple biting and sucking. It drives me freaking wild. The weird thing is that it did nothing for me in my teens, 20’s or 30’s.

I also started removing all my pubic hair around that time. Oh my God, I only wish I had been doing this throughout my youth! The freedom! The sensitivity! The cleanliness! And oh boy, does it ever make oral sex better!

 

My Wife introduced me to my prostate and I have never looked back since!.

Overall I have increasingly explored my m2m sexual experiences greatly in the last 15 years and my sex-drive has probably increased, although it was always quite high, but it is probably partly due to the fact that sexual attitudes have changed, especially with younger folk who view their sexuality in a much more relaxed way and are open to nsa sex with both sexes.

Life is short, sex is great, enjoy it!

Simon

 

I'm much more open to almost any idea sexually male female or trans. And I love helping others fulfill their sexual desires.


My number one fantasy is to have amazing cum covered fun with an asian t girl or two is the VERY top of my to do list