So Alex (Fractual_) and I were talking about super duper AIM...ok, long story short, I placed this one particular guy under a group I call "Dicks" (metaphorically speaking). And then a few minutes later, his away message was "I am not a dick." So I wonder if its possible for other people to see what groups they're listed under on your buddy list. Is that possible? Or was this just a coincidence? Or am I just being paranoid? ...dammit.
Just ask him why his away message says I am not a dick-- if he didn't see you listed him that way, that wouldn't be a suspicious question, and if he did, best to get it out in the open, that's creepy if he can peek in your computer.