Hi everybody! New here, so I beg forgiveness if this isn't really a new topic. So delete me. The beauty of this place is learning from each other, I say! Anyway, bikini waxing...! I imagine a lot of my fellow females go natural like me, but in about a month I'm going to be staying with my boyfriend and I have a good idea where it will lead (wink, nudge) Point is: I'm considering getting this done. Not all of it, mind you! - but maybe just a basic procedure. I mean, how attractive can a jungle down there be? Is this a good/bad/foolish idea? Who has had it done? What's it like? Is there anything I should know? I want to know from real, like-minded people. Thanks for your time! All the best.
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Well if you feel comftabil with it then go for it. If you’re only doing it because you think it will make him like you more then don’t go for it - don’t change yourself for someone is what I mean. I have never been waxed - I'm too scared and shy for that but I do shave. With shaving you do have to do it often; I do it ever 2nd or 3rd day. With shaving you’re prone to stubble - but I found something to solve that, face wash only on the stubbly bits, works like a charm, then when you get out of the shower a tiny but of moisturiser. I started shaving cause I wanted to see what it was like, and I loved it and haven’t turned back. So you do what’s right for you and you will be happy
Thank you for that! I mean, waxes aren't forever, right? - it'll come back and I can decide whether or not I liked it enough to do it again. I'm not changing myself for him so much as 'tidying myself up' for him. I would go for shaving but it's such a pain - literally, at times! Those tips may help in the future, though, thanks! I'm a highly shy and scared person as well but I do wonder if it might just be worth it.
well specking on a guys point of veiw he will love it, lol.and no waxing isnt forever but if you want to get into it you wax every two or three weeks, and never ever do it yourself, hair down there grows all sorts of ways - book in somewear to get it done. so money might be a problem?
I realize how expensive these things are but I might splurge on just this one. I wouldn't do it myself (money or not) because I could never do it right! I doubt I'll 'get into it.' Can't afford it money-wise, convenience-wise, and self-respect-wise! So you think he'll prefer it after the wax... That's what I thought! Male perspectives on the whole thing are encouraged, too. Both me and my man prefer the natural look but I don't consider this a betrayal of that at all. Simply a fix-up for a special occasion.
Make sure you go to a really good place, not some disreputal, back door, creepy place. Ask if they have a policy if something should happen to go wrong (I know of someone who had a wax done, and got injured from it... was actually bleeding for a while from it) waxing means it won't grow back as fast and shaving, but it also may hurt more. I would consider asking him to trim or shave for you.... I know that personally, I find it very irritating when I'm shaved and the guy's unruly with his hair, it's scratchy and irritating and all around uncomfortable. I do have very sensitive skin though (can't even use most bubble baths unless they're made for sensitive skin without breaking out in a rash)
waxing is definately a painful process but not for long. A skilled salon will do it so it hurts only for a few minutes. I would go for it. It's just temporary anyway and if it will make you more comfortable not worrying if you look too hairy, go ahead.
