Do couples like to have sex in the dark or lights on?

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  1. FatNinja

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    I prefer lights on. I love to appreciate the male and female anatomy. A cumming cock or a dripping wet pussy is such a beautiful sight
     
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  2. erofant

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    Lights ON !!! 2 people making love is a beautiful thing. I love seeing my wife as she climaxes, and she like to watch me cum. She enjoys seeing me shoot if that's the chosen route she takes. The Ward and June Clever days of lights off and under the sheets as if embarrassed are over for us. Voyeuristic tendencies.
     
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  3. ArtyB

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    Soft lights I like to see the expression on my wife's face, and when she wears her suspender belt and black stockings
     
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  4. Barry Mandelay

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    The overwhelming majority has the lights on or a well lit room is preferred. I agree with the majority. Having had sex in the dark it is not as good as having light stirs the senses better.
     
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  5. Jennie Mink

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    It's lights on every time for us as we both enjoy seeing what we are up to, especially if there's an element of massage in our foreplay.
     
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  6. Curiousxx

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    Both it depends on the mood
     
  7. Oldiebutgoodie

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    This will be hard to believe.

    My wife worked with a woman that said her husband had never seen her nude. No pictures, nothing. Sex was in total darkness or under the sheets. They had two kids.

    I don't think I could have stood it. I'd have to sneak a peek.
     
  8. Rebecca29

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    I personally like the lights off, I know my husband is having sex with me because hes attracted to me but after 2 kids I'm a bit self conscious of certain areas.
     
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  10. Angela36

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    Lights ON. I like to see what I'm working on - the male physique really turns me on (especially some special parts).
     
  11. Bissubissu

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    Lights on.... but dimmed lights make for a more sensual mood imo
     
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  12. Klimax2gether

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    I love masdaging before sex.
     
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  13. Angelic one

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    Lights on and soft light, and the sky outside is what we like. We know each other’s bodies inside out, there is not a single inch of each others bodies where our mouths hasn’t been.
     
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  14. Klimax2gether

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    you are marvellous
     
  15. Kirstie

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    At the start of the relationship, and casual hookups then lights on.
    During a relationship, most times you just go to bed and cuddle up which progresses to kissing and so on, so lights are always off - there's the light that seeps through the curtains from the street lights so its not like things are pitch black. And lets be honest, in a relationship you've seen your partners body naked countless times before so you don't really need the visual appetiser especially when a sense of love is involved.
     
  16. Angela36

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    I guess it's differs couple to couple. With the lights off it just removes one of the senses. And I like all senses to be in play.
     
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  17. Bicaptain My Captain

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    As I get older I prefer lights dimmed. Imagination is better for both of us than the reality of bright lights.
     
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  18. Angela36

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    Don't sell yourself short (no pun intended). I'll bet an older cock looks just as great as a younger one (if not better!) when it's excited and ready for battle.
     
  19. Bicaptain My Captain

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    It's the wrinkles. And gray hair down below. Just don't need to see that.
     
  20. Angela36

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    you would be surprised. Girls are willing to overlook stuff like that. I mean for example, I may be only 30, but I don't have the same body I did when I was 18. And my C cups are not as attractive (I'm told) as a lot of girls that have D cups. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
     

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