Boyfriend problems

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by ~SaRa~, Feb 8, 2005.

  1. ~SaRa~

    ~SaRa~ Member

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    Hey guys! , so I have a question…It seems like I’m sooo much more horney than my boyfriend is, I mean it kind of annoys me …I mean it just seems weird to me that I have to be begging for sex, well not begging, but you know what I mean….so any suggestions?…thank you
     
  2. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    masturbation, try it, it helps when you're horny...
     
  3. headymoechick

    headymoechick I have no idea

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    drug him and take advantage

    I don't really know. Just masturbate a lot.
     
  4. ~SaRa~

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    well i do materbate, but i mean its not the same. He just seems kind of annoyed when i want to do anything(wich I'll admit is quite frequently...)He does a lot of drugs, like weed, and painkillers could that be effecting him? i know when i do drugs it only makes me more horney
     
  5. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    well the painkillers are probably making him real relaxed and so his weenie might not be able to salute ya :D cause this guy i use to date a while ago use to take painkillers and his weenie wouldnt do much when he took them cause they made him too relaxed..

    I would tell him how you feel, that you would like to be intimate more...and if he is annoyed, you should ask why he doesnt want to make love to ya...
     
  6. kissMeImPolish

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    Dear it's all good sara... I think you should masturbate close to him and on front of him... if he doesnt jump on you that means he does too much drugs to get a hard on. Or you got to give him a half an extacy and half a viagra... apparently it's the new combo in miami...
    Maybe you arent a perfect match sexually you need to see more then one guy or you just need to get a good vibrator. I swear that if you use it on front of him he wont be long before he jumps on you and take you on the wild ride you are looking for.
     
  7. ~SaRa~

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    yeah, i had an experiance with him not being able to get hard two nights ago. really frustration for both of us.
     
  8. headymoechick

    headymoechick I have no idea

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    well, the more you focus on it the more he'll feel pressured and not be able to. forget about it, reassure him and try things that don't require him. Make him feel good about himself and sexy and it will be much easier than if you're staring at it and glancing at your watch.
     
  9. ~SaRa~

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    Thanks everyone! I'll give your sugestions a try
     
  10. kissMeImPolish

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    yeah I agree with the heady moe chic... hello by the way...
    if he feels a bit ashamed for lack of performance which happens to most of the guys who take a lot of prescription drugs... or adherol or shit like that... (I think those drugs are kind of scary if you ask me but you didnt so I wont say anything).
    ANd for the rest I think you need to masturbate more, order some porn read the website that teach you new techniques you can even share that with him do it with him present if he wants to participate let him help you out and so on... that could be hot too you know?
     
  11. ~SaRa~

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    thats a good idea, i really dont like the drugs either....but im trying to get him to stop step by step...i got him off the hard stuff at least(ex. crack)
     
  12. headymoechick

    headymoechick I have no idea

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    yuck. crack is nasty. he doesn't deserve sex if he's on that shit.
     
  13. ~SaRa~

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    :D thats what i told him
     
  14. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    You could always try seducing him too... it's not just us gals that like a little persuasion and romance. Strip tease, romantic dinner, etc. Or you could masturbate in front of him, that tends to make most guys pretty horny and turned on (just don't use a dildo/vibrator that's significantly larger than he is)
     
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