Trouble Activating Hall Pass

Yeah, bully others is just what VG does. Chill out.

 

Whatever you do, don't defend yourself when VG mocks you, or prepare for the wrath of the other members. For some reason.

 

Well, in this case, its because he said divorce would be the easy way out, wouldnt have to look at her face. Nor very nice. A comment none of the ladies here are going to respond well to


That be the same wife in the first post he said he was hoping would join them in the bedroom once he finds, I assume a younger lady. Something the ladies here will respond with - yep, got it, know what type of guy you are, say no more.

Me being supposedly cynical is nothing compared to that

 

I don't think he was talking about her looks.

VG, you're not being constructive here. Why don't you politely fuck off and post on some other threads?

 

And you just gave yourself away assuming it was just about her physical appearance

But I am being constructive. Sounds like he needs to know how to at least speak about women better. Especially if he is trying to hook up with a lady half his age and wants that to last more than 5 minutes on the first date

 

My alarm bells are ringing with this situation . The Hall Pass malarkey isn't going to help .If anything it could make the situation worsen .

The best way forward is for them both to get themselves in front of a counsellor. That way a third party can listen to all the viewpoints and put in place some plan of action agreeable to both parties .A tricky case me thinks .

 

Apologies to VG and others. He's completely off base, but I wish no one specific harm. Fuse is really short these days. If you've never dealt with alcoholism, kids and infidelity, I wouldn't wish it on anyone...not even VG aka blanco baboon.
We've been going to counseling for almost five months. Counselor knows about the threesome subject. Says a lot of couples do it, but like many of you, cautions against doing it for the wrong reasons.
Not looking for a younger woman. My wife is smoking hot by any standards. Definitely married-up in that regard. She comes from a fucked up home and has struggled with addiction off and on her whole life. All I can say is if you find yourself living with an addict, get help. Al-anon, counseling, yoga, whatever. Most of us aren't equipped to fly solo against the beast.
She wants to go to Vegas for her birthday and pay for a hottie. She loves ladies, always has. Says its not to hold over my head, rather a vision for me to replay when I think about her mistake. Not gonna lie. A 20-something would be sweet for me, but I'm all about seeing her rolling around with a young lady in a Vegas suite. Hot as hell and it's been a VERY long time!