IMO that's the best thing about the bondage experience! My favorite gift to give a special friend is the offer of being bound so he can have his way with me - unconditionally, and for as long as necessary to sexually gorge himself. His absolute pleasure is the only goal of my gift. Also hoping some day he will return the favor.
Hope he does for you, swapping roles is not just fun, but you can learn from each other just how far the other will go. Like you say, unconditionally.
Tied spread eagle to the bed and blindfolded.......... The first time I was introduced to sensory deprivation it was such a turn on.
Me and my gf are huge into police handcuffs and legcuffs but no interest in ropes or straps. I'm not sure if it's a bondage thing or just a fascination with handcuffs. I've never heard of anyone else having a handcuff specific bondage fetish. Id add that we do use outfits and high heel boots and what not so it might be more about dominance rather than bondage.
Sounds hot to restrain someone or be restrained. To tease, edge, deny orgasm, even possibly give multiple orgasms.