People that talk shit about others

Best type of action is to try and get on well with the employers and employees.
It doesn’t always work but when it does work comes a little more permanent.

 

Suzanne-Check out my message on the prior page.

 

You guys talking shit about each other?

Lol.

 

No---not at all. She just had an impression of me that she thinks is correct----no harm--no foul.

 

I wouldn’t worry about it, nothing you can do if they are. That’s something I struggled with for a long time until I got older. Then I just didn’t give a shit. Keep doing what you’re doing, helping people that need help, and don’t follow everyone else’s toxic behavior on job.

 

I did. This one was an accidental duplicate due to my own server running slow.

 

Irm da shit talker

Youz a bitch ass Ho
But do you really know about Irmi for real though
Carnival freek show
Mind of a lunatic back from the dead
Messin with me you lose your muthafuckin head
And I talken to you bitch ass ho's even a little
Id rather beat ya to shit and pull the plug at the hospital
Callin me this Callin me that
Cause you some old bitch on the forum im gonna slap
With the old school beat down like 10 on 1
I ain't remember no fair fights where I'm from
Maniac and I'ma stand right where the bloodstain is at
Hopin' you come back, nigga fuck that
I'm the poster child of death
I'ma keep swingin' my axe till nuthin's left
I ain't havin' that so fuck you bitch
Tell your friends I'ma hater and I'm talkin' shit

 

Man I dont give a fuck if you write your posts so well
Or the stories you tell, nigga check yo self
And where dat bitch, saying shit that ain't true
When the shit went down tell me where your crew?
Huh?
Yeah..
Prolly at home talken shit about someone else
And when the shit when down you were told to fuck yourself
Now you cryin' inside little thug still frontin'
Thinkin' to yourself why the fuck you say something
Too many niggas wanna beat me up
Steal my shit, slap my bitch
I'm like fuck this
Now you know what it's like
To deal with real killas that don't play, everyday
Knockin' suckas out the box, who wanna get some?
Seven video channels for my victims
I ain't havin' that fuck you bitch
Tell your friends I'ma hater and I'm talkin' shit

 

When people don't have enough work to do, they tend to use that excess capacity to turn on each other. Others not engaging in these hate-fests are probably at their desks looking for new jobs while this is going on, but people rarely attack any significant number of co-workers when there is more than enough work to keep everyone busy.

People who are engaged and productive don't waste time complaining about their colleagues, nor telling you how busy they are. Steer clear of people who do.

 

Love this! So true! I totally get frustrations at work. But what I liked about my normal team is the frustration was directed at an issue, not a particular person. Constantly going on about how someone is stupid or shouldn't be at their job if they ask a question, make a tiny mistake or do a task in a slightly different way to the way you do it just strikes me as so childish and unprofessional. Bring on the end of these six weeks!

 

this is the responsible and admirable way to be. but honestly none of us are perfect,
and i think there could be a real danger of eventually blowing up or going postal from trying to keep too tight of a lid, for too long, on absolutely all of it.
i think you're right that we don't have to vent at each other, but we do sometimes have to explain to ourselves, and to the world in neutral non-personal ways,
how we feel, and how we feel, that people could act, that would avoid creating these kinds of situations.
that's what i do here, and in my own mind.

 

i've never worked in that kind of cubicle farm environment, so i can't fairly judge that first couple of lines.
but i agree with that last line except i would add most people i've ever known, including myself, who are creative and imaginative, to those who are engaged and productive.

 

When i was at a clothing store people were talking behind my back all the time.
I managed to have some wanker email through a false report.
The managers did not care.
Fortunately the cops did and went after the imbecile that false reported me.

 

I learned when I was in my early teens to talk about my feelings. I was relegated at 13 to a boarding school for troubled teens - maybe you've heard of synanon - well, this was based on that treatment strategy. Anyway, the aforementioned treatment strategy dealt enormously with openness, honesty, and above all "feeling one's feelings". Well the value of sharing one's emotions couldn't be understated at what was actually a group of several schools referred to at the time as the Cedu family of services. And so, I learned that.

After I left the school (2 years 10 months later at age 15) I learned that this type of openness was not at all common. I couldn't expect my peers to be talking about their feelings, and didn't find therapy a viable outlet until 15 years later; around 30. So, I did exactly what you warn against - kept it all in. Eventually I became unhappy and couldn't continue that way. I found myself eventually pouring my heart out in psychiatric appointments and at times when I went to private therapists. It was an inevitable. Now I don't really have as much trouble expressing myself as I used to. But back then when I was thirty I had been drinking and had spent 10 years remembering the drug use of my teens, trying to forget. But I'm finally comfortable.

Sorry for the long reply! I get carried away...

 

nothing to apologize. sometimes it takes a lot of words.

 

When you throw dirt, you lose your ground.

 

Had few things in past said about me by psycho exes. Always turned out making them look in the wrong., which they were. People are not stupid, anyone with their own sense will make their own judgement.

 

I have to agree and if I am so unhappy with a situation/person I move on...lots of potty/gutter talk directed talk around here, and I've been a target by at least one....I do my best to avoid contact...


And there are a lot of jerks out there who are the bosses and sign our paychecks and take them or leave them....

 

In my dream today, we were talkin to each other on this forum. I had this dream today.