Do couples like to have sex in the dark or lights on?

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by Klimax2gether, May 11, 2018.

  1. Bicaptain My Captain

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    There is nothing unattractive about C cups. I've caressed, kissed and run my tongue over all sizes. From the flat-chested woman who went wild with my lips on her nipples to the DDs I could play Russian with. All are lovely.
     
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  2. Barry Mandelay

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    Oh Dam, when I look upon my partner standing there I see her eyes and smile. Then the way her hair may fall over her shoulders or just her bare shoulders as my gaze falls to her breasts. It doesn't matter the size as I know she is going to give herself to me. All of her. From her breasts to her lovely waist down her legs to her toes and back up the her sex. I take in all of her.

    Whew, what's this thread all about? Oh, yes. Definitely, I must have the lights on.
     
  3. Klimax2gether

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    Older and experienced cocks know how to pleasure the ladie's to mind blowing orgasms.
     
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  4. Angela36

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    There's no doubt older guys have more experience. And like anything else, with sex that goes a long way. The only long term relationship I was in was with a guy who was quite a few years older than I was. Without a doubt it was the best sex I've ever had, and sadly, probably better than I'll ever have again.
     
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  5. ChallengerDream20

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    Oh Lights on for sure... I LOVE watching my man!!!!
     
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  6. Pinkcandy

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    Depends. being caught makes me excited
     
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  7. Klimax2gether

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    I am sure it applies to women. When they mature they will kmow how to pleasure a man to the ultimate hight of sexual satisfaction while make him responsible to give full satisfaction to their body and mind. Good communication during sex is important.
     
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  8. Angela36

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    I hope that means I will only be getting better. I guess there is something to look forward to about getting older.
     
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  9. erofant

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    You're only as old as you think!! So don't think like you're 85 or older. I'm convinced I'm still 22, but with lots of experience!!
     
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  10. marcopolousa

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    Probably a D cup lover told you that

    I have small hands so anything above C is an inconvenience.

    Lights on, I like going straight to what I'm looking for I like to see what I lick where my fingers are and how my cock shine when it's wet
     
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  11. Varmint

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    I've wondered many times why smaller breasts seem to be more sensitive, or is that just my own imagination?
     
  12. Angela36

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    Not sure. I think it has to do more with who's lips are on my nipples. And what his other body parts are doing at the time.....
     
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  13. The Shark

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    We always have lights on, whether its soft light, bright lights or daylight. We like seeing each other naked, and LOVE being seen by each other as well. I get so turned on knowing that shes seeing me naked, especially when I'm hard!
     
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  14. Klimax2gether

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    Try to pursuade her to enjoy the visual.beauty of the naked bodies. It is part of sexual fullfilment.
     
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  15. ledzep75

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    Lights on and a mirror to look in also. I love when my wife is on top with stockings on and panties pulled to the side and I can look in the mirror and see myself going balls deep in her pussy.
     
  16. alwaysready1970

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    Lights on but we so it during the day as much as we can. Love seeing her body in all it’s glory
     
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  17. wilt88ta

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    As far as my experience is concerned, it is often the woman who prefers dark during intimacy.
    Perhaps it depends on the fact that we, as men, fear less the patner's judgment in this area.
    Women often compare themselves to other women. Some women feel they don't measure up to standards and expectations, especially if they compare with actresses and stars of TV and show business, but also female friends or colleagues whom they consider most attractive.
    Maybe this could result in a feeling of inadequacy even in the sphere of intimacy.
    I do not intend to generalize because I know it is not always the case, however, beyond natural shyness and modesty, I could not explain this difference in attitude towards light in the bedroom.
    As for me, seeing the body of my lover and mine during sex is an important part of the whole experience. It is a source of great excitement and contentment,and if I had to give up, it would be something incomplete. But, of course, I have to respect my partner's needs and make her feel comfortable with me in the situation.
    At first I had some difficulties with my girlfriend on this aspect. However, the situation has improved over time since complicity and confidence has increased.
    At the beginning she was ashamed because she thought that I did not like her phisically because she has a disability, having a condition of dwarfism rather accentuated.
    She has a sunny character and personality and she has found her place in the world. She has accepted her condition and feels comfortable in her work environment and social life.
    But,often even people very self-confident in certain situations feel insecure because they fear the judgment of someone they like.
    For this reason I believe that she was afraid of showing herself naked to me in intimacy.

    I didn't insist at the beginning not to hurt her emotionally. Yet she has a very attractive face.
    Certainly, her body is particular, because of her condition. But I find her very attractive and sexy.
    She is not thin, she is a shapely woman but with a very small body, in proportion to her stature. Maybe her breasts seem too large in proportion to her petite figure, but, in reality, they would be normal for a woman of standard stature. It's only that they are firm and stood out on her small body. Her legs are small but shapely and she has a cute little ass, very firm and a little protruding. This made it seem bigger than it really is. Her tummy is not fat but somewhat distended, her navel is in a very low position, not far from the crotch.
    When we are naked in the intimacy, I find that her body is irresistible and it drives me crazy to see our bodies together so different from each other.

    I am a normal man, I don't feel particularly handsome but I'm quite tall and I like to keep fit by swimming and going to the gym. Being able to see the expressions of pleasure on her face, or her shaped little body bounching when she is on top or when she is under me missionary, it is a source of great carnal pleasure.
    I love to watch while I'm penetrating her.
    Sex involves all the senses, hearing, sight, smell and, having a chance to look too, makes the experience complete and rewarding.
    It is a source of great lust.
    Yet each of us, though not perfect, can be attractive and interesting for so many reasons.
    Furthermore, each one of us has different tastes. And for us it looks beautiful what or who we like.
     
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  18. srgreene

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    I dunno about that, wilt- I have found men rather insecure about their equipment and performance when the clothes come off. I'd even say it is the distinct minority of men who are secure enough in themselves to not be worried about that. I've had numerous post-coital discussions in which I felt it incumbent to reassure my partner. I'd go even further- that is part of the reason male dominated societies are so insistent on women not playing around. The more dominant men are, the stronger that societal rule is imposed. Now I am not an anthropologist, but that is my sense of human cultures.

    But yes, we compare ourselves to other women. We want our mates to be around long enough to support our young, so we are understandably edgy about other women being more attractive than we ourselves are.
     
  19. bft4evr

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    I do not mind the lights on.
     
  20. srgreene

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    I never did either. But then again, Libertarians do it freely!
     

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