SEXLESS RELATIONSHIPS..Can You Do It???

Men, can you really be in a relationship with a woman without having sex? In other words, if you really cared for a woman, would you understand if she did not want to have sex at all, for whatever reason??? Could you handle that??

Fellas & Ladies...let us know your thoughts!!!

 

Yeah, probably..

 

I tried once, it lasted about 3 months. She was saving herself for marriage, which I thought was admirable. At the time I was 26 and her 24 and well we both figured out in that time that we weren't right for each other. I will say the entire time it just didn't feel right, not having sex with her, so I'm going to say no.

 

yeah I could it's great but there's so many more important things.

 

Yeah, but it wouldn't be the same as a romantic relationship. it could still be very intimate, but not the same

 

I wouldnt want to be in a long term relationship without having sex. Seems kind of weird, especially when you arent planning on getting married.

 

I'm going to say no.

Maybe I'm shallow, but at least I'm honest about it.

 

I think there should be a separation of sexuality and relationships.... much like the separation church and state.

just kidding.

 

Saving sexuality for marriage is just too risky...

Scenario: You keep a relationship going for a few years until marriage happens. Honeymoon night you pour a few glasses of chapaigne, set some mood music and light candles. When your partner arrives from a short trip to an undisclosed location, you find he/she has picked up a friend from the local Old Macdonald's Petting Zoo, exit 264 off highway 471....

 

well i think i would like to start off slow...but fuck man...i would wonder whats wrong with him if it took too long....i guess i wouldnt mind a couple of months if it wasnt too heated (ecverything else) because innormal life being single it's like that anyways..

 

Nope. I'm a sexual person, it just wouldn't work.

 

i might be able to, but not for too long, as there needs to be something to look forward to symbolise your love for each other, sex is just a way of two people expressing their love for each other.

 

my boyfrinds brother has had his girlfriend for about 3 years now and they don't have sex. They kiss for a long time.

I couldn't do that. I could until I was ready to have sex. I just love sensuality in a relationship. It's one of the best parts.

 

There's no way I could be in a serious relationship and not have sex. For awhile, it's fine, but I'm a really sexual and sensual person.

I agree with the above poster that sex is another way of expressing your love for someone else...when you've expressed tons of other ways and not THAT, somehow I feel that something would be missing.

 

No way! When you love somebody, you want to touch and explore their body, you have the urdge to kiss her all over, lay naked together on a lazy sunday morning and then become one with her.

 

Without any type of sex at all? Nope, couldn't do it. I'm a very sexual person, and I wouldn't be with someone who wasn't the same.

 

YES

 

You are wrong about women's sex drive after 35. I have been with a couple that were 40/45 and they out did me. Hey youngin, try an older woman of 35 + and see how well you can hang, I bet she puts your dick in the dirt.....

 

yep ,altho that was prolly one of the many reasons we split up

 

since when...I didn't say that I didn't like sex! I just meant that I have been in a relationship & even lived with a guy without sex.

I didn't get 7 kids from having "No sex drive" and even tho I'm divorced now that doesn't mean I'm a "nun"!