whoa, I couldn't either. I got through the stuff about your mom and dad and when the job stuff came up I just couldn't proceed I hope you're ok and it feels good to vent!
Hi LotusBlossom, maybe it is time. Time to stand up for yourself and tell your mom THE FUCK OFF. Take the money you have, make whatever you have to and DRIVE!
And don't worry about your mom anymore and let her kill herself in her own mixed up world....You can not save the world, nor can you help (save) someone who does not want to be helped, and can not even help themselves.... Namaste Francine IM me if you want
WHorseturtle is right, you can't just let her control you man, sounds like she is taking advantage of your willingness to help or something.. Sometimes you just have say fuck everything else, and do what's best for you.
HEY, LOOK. ANOTHER IDIOT WHO THINKS THE PEOPLE ON THE INTERNET GIVE A FLYING FUCK IN A ROLLING DONUT ABOUT THEIR PERSONAL PROBLEMS. WELL, I SUPPOSE IT'S ABOUT TIME FOR AN OLDIE, BUT A GOODIE:
what the hell???? i read some of it and im sorry. some of it is tough but we all go through that... most of the people who dont go though it when young, will later. you cant be sheltered your whole life. stop whining and start living.
I say get the fuck out of there...go out and do something else...live with a friend? Relative? Beg a friend of the family to take you in? Just do somthing to get out of that house, anything would be better than that. It sounds like your mom is a real fuckin' *****no offence* and is taking advantage of your good nature.
this bites. i had typed a loong response already and i hit SOMETHING... i think the space key and now it's all gone. ill try again though. whatever. first of all.. i do think it's fucked up the things your mom said to you.... it's kinda disrespectful, some of it. but to be honest.. you're twenty. you're parents or parent, i forget which of the two choices.. DO help you out. the day i turned eighteen i was kicked out.... because my mom is super strict and i lied and said i was spending the night at a girlfriend's house and she found out we were at a party. before then i had no door in my room cause i smoked a couple cigs. in there- actually on the roof out the window. i think my mom meant well but she didnt know how to raise a teenager. it's just.. i see her faults, i see mine and im trying to forgive. i think we just need a talk about it but im so scared. in any case... enough about me... i think that if you're 20 and you live there that you SHOULD have to pay something, espiecially if you're family is not rich or really well off. i know you might get angry and things suck.. but what are you gonna do? after i was kicked out for two months, i started seeing this guy and i stayed with him for 10 months. he beat me senseless and tried to kill me with a knife once. i ran to my mommy for help and she didnt believe me cause i lied about sneaking off and she loved my ex. didnt believe me. told me i couldnt come home (i was eighteen) bottom line is. i still love her. when life puts things on you, you dont know what's gonna happen. we are all human. but at least your parents are there and if they are supportive, i think you should care and be nice and respectful to them. it could be worse. i didnt mean to preach but i wish you much peace and blessings.
When I was in college a number of people got together and rented a house near the college. No need for car. No gas. No insurance. Very low rent. Lots of fun. Share food expenses. Bottom line. You can live on almost nothing. Let your mom work out her own problems and get the hell out of there.
dude id tell you to come live with me but my dad is a fuckin asshole homophobe. i agree with the person who said get some people together and rent a house. i read every post in here thoroughly and i agree with some and disagree with others. your mom is definetley taking advantage of your being a kind soul but you are LETTING HER . the only thing for you to do is tell her you love her uncondtionally and move out. ever thought of giving ur pops a ring and seeing if u can go live with him or something? good luck buddy
