The physical strength of the orgasm for me is higher with a partner. I agree with the others in that , I want that physical and emotional connection. My solo orgasms are awesome but, better with a partner.
While I have probably had many thousands of very satisfying hand-shandies, there is nothing quite like a wet vagina enveloping your dick, and the intimacy of the moment, even if it is with a complete stranger, is the pinnacle of physical pleasure.
Oh yes. Nothing more intimate or pleasurable then having my lips or vagina enveloping a rock hard dick.
I have some very strong orgasms when I jerk off. However, I also have some pretty strong orgasms when I fuck my wife. If I had to choose between fucking my hand or fucking my wife. My wife would win everytime. The love and connection I feel with my wife makes sex with her much better than jerking off. Jerking off is more of a filler or recreational release for me.
Gee, I wonder if the orgasms with your wife would be alot better if you didn't jerk off so much.. I bet she wonders, too. .
As much as I enjoy masturbating, enjoy having her watch me, sex wins every time. The orgasms are so much more intense and we have such a deep connection.
I have very intense orgasms when I discreetly masturbate so I can be seen by somebody who thinks they are s getting a lucky look. I also have great orgasms when I have casual sex with men I don't know or men I shouldn't, ie friends husbands.
I agree, when I jack it I get all of it out because I know exactly how to handle my dick and give the prostate that last little push as I am finishing. The only other people who could completely empty my cum sack are 2 shemales where one gave me head and the other jacked me off in a massage parlor. And one woman named Lucy. She came over just as my other fuck friend was leaving. Lucy wanted to go down on me as soon as she came in my condo. I said I just did that girl you passed outside I don't think I have any juice left. She said do you want to bet, with a big smile. I said at least let me shower. She said that won't be necessary. She went down there and for about 2 minutes did nothing but sniff and moan. Then her usual blow job began. She by far was the best bj I ever experienced. Yes she got the rest of what the other girl left behind. I really miss my Lucy girl. We were fuck friends for about 3 years. She was a sixe zero with size A tits. She had the body of a boy.
Masturbation is about pleasure as only you know how. Sex is about a connection with pleasure thrown in.
There is definitely a benefit to being in control of touch, pressure, timing and all that. However, for me, being able to just let go and have a man bring me to orgasm takes me to a whole new level. Maybe it’s the feeling of being vulnerable or just giving someone control...not sure...
For me intercourse gives me more intense climaxes and I think my wife would agree however we have regular sessions where we do nothing but watch each other masturbating and we have both experienced some pretty earth shattering orgasms actually just last night my wife started to cum while we were talking on the phone,she claims she did not touch herself but the sound of my voice got her so wet she couldn't help it,,I'm amazed if it really happened like that because it wasn't sex talk just romantic stuff. Cheer's Bob aka Cookie Man
For me I would say solo are better as i can take my time. My girl likes it to be all over in about 20 minutes, when going solo, i can take an hour or two so the build up is longer/better. When i finally blow, it sometimes hits me in the chin!!