I haven't talked to my mom since christmas at which point she seemed fine. I went to my grandma's house last week and my mom was in jail (she has to go to jail for like 10 hours on saturdays and sundays) and my grandma told me about the night before when she lost it and started bitting everyone there. Then she tole me about another time when my mom was sitting on the couch , drunk beyond anything you could imagine, then she jumped up grabbed my sister (4yo) and said she had to hurry home because My mom's boyfriend, my dad, and my uncle subpoenaed her. Then drove home wasted and didn't remember any of it.
My grandma also told me that she saw my mom push my sister down in the kitchen for no reason then not remember it a few minutes later.
My grandma told me about what my uncle was doing too (to prevent confusion the grandma I speak of is my mom's mom and my uncle is my dad's brother) He recently got a restraining order against my dad cause my dad beat the hell out of him on christmas cause just before my grandma died he messed with her will so that he would get everything (alot of money and a huge chunk of the indian reservation in wisconsin) He (my uncle) claims he didn't do anything and that it's going to him and his three brothers. Yet he hasn't been to work in over two years (he had a good job so he had enough money to do that) but he still lives in my grandmas house (and has since he was born... fucking loser) and says it's his. Whats funny about it though is that he says he doesn't have all the money (500,000) but everything in that house is brand new and it looks like a mansion now. I'm pretty sure I'm gonna get drunk one night and go kill him.
If your mother is driving around plastered with her child in the car and pushing her around she doesn't deserve to have her. Someone should step in and do something about it.
I didn't mean to post that yet. I had more to say, as always. You shouldn't kill your uncle.. maybe just shoot him in the knee or something. Get him to admit to it all and get it on tape. But, for real, someone needs to slap your mother across her face. Did she do those things to you as well??
Why are you more concerned with the uncle and the money situation than with the mother and the child situation??
sorry juggs it does suck being around crazy junkies and alcoholics. i grew up around people like that.
cuz thats obviously goign to be taken care of first. child abuse is plain wrong and jugg knows this so im sure he is gonna handle it or someone else prolly will. the grandma thing doesnt look like its going to be handled.
Stick a fork in the grandma deal - it's done/it's not going anywhere. Worry about the abuses FIRST otherwise they will fall thru the cracks!
Thats ok now cause my Aunt is gonna take her for a while and my mom is trying (or required while on prohibation(SP?) not sure which) to get sober and halfway normal
damn juggs this is all fubar. and ya never ever put down on any type of print that you are going to kill someone, or might kill or probably will kill. what comes around, goes around, and from the sounds of it your uncle will get whats coming to him, three times as bad......the fucker. as for your mom, she may be court ordered or it may be part of her probation but she has to want to get the help.....sounds a little bipolar maybe, i am not a dr. so i wouldnt know. Your sister is the real victim here, she needs to be protected before something really bad happens to her. anyways, jugg, sorry to hear about all of this, i hope everything turns out for everyone involved.