Hi, I need some guidance there is this guy who I enjoy talking to. In away I dont want to lose him. But he seems to be distancing himself from me. I talk to him on the phone and he always wants to hangout. The problem is I am shy and I do not know him and I do not feel comfortable w/ him just coming here and us going out and meeting for the first time. I met him briefly through a friend it was for a few minutes we didnt say anything and to tell you the truth I do not think we even remember what eachother looked like..It was like it was all a big blur to me. There has been opportunities to hangout with a group but something always comes up to where only one goes and the other just couldnt go. Maybe we arent suppose to meet because everytime opportunities come up it doesnt work out. I know he is mad right now at me because he has told my friend about it and I havent heard from him. I dont think he gets it that i feel more comfortable in a group atleast for the first time that I meet him. Can you please tell me what your feeling on this is? Maybe this whole thing isnt meant to be. But I know if he calls one more time and ask to hangout again and I turn him down thats going to be the last time I hear from him. thank you for your time.
