Getting old is a bitch. Pushing 74 and sex life is practically nonexistent. Fortunately, I have good memories.
Myself I’d say I’m very up and down when it comes wanting a little cock time... sometimes it’s a daily desire and I can go for months not worrying about it ... I don’t have a FWB so that help or hurts .... lol
As much as possible..When Craigslist personals was active I was sucking 4-5 different cocks a week...could probably take at least 3-4 loads a day..swallow a couple and take a couple in the ass...have always been very, very sexual and although I started to repress my bisexuality at 14 (social pressure and love of pussy) wanting woman to truly love me (that never happened) at 65 became MM active again and truly love it! Left NPD wife of 20 years a month ago and haven't looked back. Openly bi now and looking forward to next hookup...once lock down relaxed here. Also, back in states, have a bi male couple I could stay with in PA...not sure when I could make back though....will see....would be nice to have 2 cocks every day
I used to hook up a few times a year back when Craigslist was still a thing. Nowadays, I chat with more guys on apps, or on Twitter DMs, but the actual amount of MM play is even smaller. Need to change that once the world calms down a bit.
I was never successful on Craigslist. From what I've heard from others, some had success and hooked up a few times a week from it, and some didn't and ran into mostly spammers and pic collectors. What apps do you use? I hesitate to use Grindr because I don't think I will find the patient, considerate guys I need right now in my bisexual life. I'm looking for more than a one night anonymous hookup. Maybe after I've had some experience with guys I'd be open to same sex one night stands, but I doubt it. I'm not even a huge fan of opposite sex one night stands to be honest. When you do something so intimate and personal with someone, I want to think it has changed the relationship between those involved, and begs for maintaining of some kind of contact. Maybe I'm being too idealistic.
I was living in San Francisco during the heyday of Craigslist, so there was a lot of action if you wanted to play that game. I confess I did my share of spamming and pic collecting there too, but I would make the effort to hook up when it seemed like a good match. In addition to MM hookups, I also managed to luck out with several bi 3somes, leading to some of the best sex in my life. Nowadays, I check out Grindr just to see who is out there, but it's a different vibe. I don't like the emphasis on face pics and the line by line chatting you have to do there can be tiring. There are some BBS boards here in Japan that are more like CL that I have had some luck with, but hooking up in Japan is a whole nother story.
O to have been in San Francisco while Craigslist was in full force! Or just to be in San Francisco! I bet there are so many opportunities for men who are into men. I would like to visit San Francisco someday, mainly to check out the Haight-Asbury area. Probably a bit touristy but maybe there are hidden spots around there that are interesting. Maybe I'd take a drive down Lombard lol. But I'd also have the thriving gay scene in mind and I'd want to be open to some experiences with guys. Glad you're getting at least some in Tokyo. Hope things improve for you! And yeah, Grindr doesn't seem to promote more than hookups. I like a nice face as much as the other guy, but what's left of the attraction once we start talking, and talking apparently in an awkward interface?
